A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
RIGHT LIVING Undertaking the Commitment to Abstain from Harming Living Beings
Harming living beings is
unhealthy. Refraining from harming living beings is healthy. (MN 9)
Abandoning the harming of living beings, one abstains from harming
living beings; with rod and weapon laid aside, gentle and kindly, one
abides with compassion toward all living beings. (MN 41) One practices
thus: "Others may harm living beings, but I will abstain from the
harming of living beings." (MN 8)
A layperson is not to engage in the livelihood of trading in weapons. (AN 5.177)
Reflection
Everyone has to
earn a living somehow, and all human activities involve some form of
harm to others. The Buddha encouraged his followers to abstain from
certain trades that do the most harm, including involvement with weapons
of warfare. He did not condemn them as morally wrong but pointed out
that the harm caused by weapons rebounds on the worker and has a
cumulative unhealthy effect on the mind.
Daily Practice
Think about
what you do professionally and reflect on how much harm to other beings
is intrinsic to the job. If there are ways to mitigate this harm, try to
implement changes in how things are done. If you are engaged in a job
that is fundamentally harmful, such as making or deploying weapons that
are used to kill, then it would contribute to your welfare to look for
another line of work.
Tomorrow: Restraining Unarisen Unhealthy States One week from today: Abstaining from Taking What is Not Given
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When
I surrender to beauty, I’m letting go of the ways in which I’m
protecting and guarding myself. I’m allowing myself to expand, and I’m
letting go of the sense of who I think I am, and then beginning to
experience and touch into the actual expression of spaciousness.
Nearly 2,200
government employees involved in foreign policy issues signed a letter
delivered to Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton calling on the
government to give EQUAL BENEFITS TO SAME-SEX PARTNERS.
The Bush
administration had eased some rules, opening up some training to
same-sex partners, but had resisted efforts to treat homosexual partners
the same as married couples. But Clinton, during her confirmation
hearings, indicated a greater willingness to explore the issue.
"I think that we
should take a hard look at the existing policy," Clinton said in
response to a question from Sen. Russell Feingold (D-Wis.). "My
understanding is other nations have moved to extend that partnership
benefit." The issue achieved prominence in 2007 when a respected
ambassador, Michael Guest, resigned after 26 years in the Foreign
Service to protest the rules and regulations that he argued gave
same-sex partners fewer benefits than family pets. Guest said he was
forced to choose "between obligations to my partner, who is my family,
and service to my country," which he called "a shame for this
institution and our country.
With the
overturning of the Defense of Marriage Act by the Supreme Court in 2013,
these benefits are now available to married Gay and Lesbian partners.
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Gay Wisdom for Daily Living from White Crane Institute
"With the
increasing commodification of gay news, views, and culture by powerful
corporate interests, having a strong independent voice in our community
is all the more important. White Crane is one of the last brave
standouts in this bland new world... a triumph over the looming
mediocrity of the mainstream Gay world." - Mark Thompson
South Africa
adopted its post-Apartheid constitution. The breathtaking freedoms
declared in this document made South Africa the first nation to bar
discrimination based on sexual orientation.
2009 -
Nearly 2,200
government employees involved in foreign policy issues signed a letter
delivered to Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton calling on the
government to give EQUAL BENEFITS TO SAME-SEX PARTNERS.
The Bush
administration had eased some rules, opening up some training to
same-sex partners, but had resisted efforts to treat homosexual partners
the same as married couples.
But Clinton,
during her confirmation hearings, indicated a greater willingness to
explore the issue. "I think that we should take a hard look at the
existing policy," Clinton, in response to a question from Sen. Russell
Feingold (D-Wis.) said "My understanding is other nations have moved to
extend that partnership benefit."
The issue
achieved prominence in 2007 when a respected ambassador, Michael Guest,
resigned after 26 years in the Foreign Service to protest the rules and
regulations that he argued gave same-sex partners fewer benefits than
family pets. Guest said he was forced to choose "between obligations to
my partner, who is my family, and service to my country," which he
called "a shame for this institution and our country.
With the
overturning of the Defense of Marriage Act by the Supreme Court in 2013,
these benefits are now available to married Gay and Lesbian partners.
There remains a looming threat, though, that they can be rescinded. The
Radical Rightwing Religionists are hard at work to see that this
happens. And every day, with this administration, have a judiciary and
the Supreme Court they need to accomplish it.
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Gay Wisdom for Daily Living from White Crane Institute
"With the
increasing commodification of gay news, views, and culture by powerful
corporate interests, having a strong independent voice in our community
is all the more important. White Crane is one of the last brave
standouts in this bland new world... a triumph over the looming
mediocrity of the mainstream Gay world." - Mark Thompson
However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds; bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too bodily
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
When you have done an action with the body, reflect on that same bodily
action thus: "Has this action I have done with the body led to my own
affliction?" If, on reflection, you know that it has, then tell someone
you trust about it and undertake a commitment not to do it again. If you
know it has not, then be content and feel happy about it. (MN 61)
Reflection
While the
practice has to do with being present in the moment, we are also
encouraged to reflect on past action with the same diligence we apply to
present action and intention for future action. If we have done harm in
the past, it is healing to bring it out in the open by revealing it to
another. Not necessarily a religious figure with the power to
forgive—there is no such person in Buddhism—but simply a person you
trust.
Daily Practice
Practice having
no secrets. Whenever you do something, even a very small thing, that
you feel was wrong or hurtful in some way, make a point of "coming
clean" about it to someone. Perhaps you apologize to someone you’ve
harmed or confess your errors to a trusted friend. With this as an
ongoing practice, you may find yourself feeling lighter, unburdened by
the things you do that are not quite right.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Harming Living Beings One week from today: Reflecting upon Verbal Action
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