Wednesday, October 22, 2025

Via Daily Dharma: The Perfect Guide

 

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The Perfect Guide

When we investigate, either through our own analysis of his teachings or the fact that countless practitioners have been led from suffering to full enlightenment using his guidance, we will see that the Buddha is the perfect guide.

Lama Zopa Rinpoche, “The Continuity of Consciousness”


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The Art of Mindfulness
By Shantum Seth
A dharma teacher and pilgrimage leader recounts his first time visiting India's historic Buddhist sites with the late Thich Nhat Hanh.
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Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Speech: Refraining from Frivolous Speech

 

RIGHT SPEECH
Refraining from Frivolous Speech
Frivolous speech is unhealthy. Refraining from frivolous speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning frivolous speech, one refrains from frivolous speech. One speaks at the right time, speaks only what is fact, and speaks about what is good. One speaks what is worthy of being overheard, words that are reasonable, moderate, and beneficial. (DN 1) One practices thus: “Others may speak frivolously, but I shall abstain from frivolous speech.” (MN 8)

A person should examine things in such a way that while examining them their consciousness is not stuck internally, and not clinging, they do not become agitated. Then there is no origination of suffering. (MN 138)
Reflection
Suffering arises when consciousness gets stuck internally. That is to say, the mind gets attached to the things flowing through it and cannot let go of one thing to allow the next thing to arise. This can happen a lot when we are communicating. How often do you appear to be listening to someone when in fact you are rehearsing what you are going to say next? Right speech requires unsticking the mind from its internal clinging.
Daily Practice
Encourage your mind to work like Teflon, encountering everything but not getting attached or stuck to the objects it becomes aware of. This requires listening to a person speak, for example, without grabbing hold of a particular word or phrase but remaining open to everything that is said. Stay focused on what is happening in the present moment and respond appropriately, without projecting your own internal attachments.
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One week from today: Refraining from False Speech

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Via Ram Dass - Love Serve Remember Foundation --- Words of Wisdom - October 22, 2025 🍁

 


"If we are to help heal the world, we need to remember that it is a sacred place. Our actions need to be positive statements, reminders that even in the worst times there is a world worth struggling for. We need to find ways to keep the vision alive, to acknowledge but not get caught in the dark side, to remember that even the worst aspects of suffering are only part of the whole picture. We need to enter lightly. "
 
- Ram Dass

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Self-Compassion - Walt Opie 2025-10-12

Via GBF] \\ "Self-Compassion" with Walt Opie

Here is the latest dharma talk now available on the GBF website, podcast and YouTube Channel.

Self-Compassion – Walt Opie

Self-Compassion - Walt Opie 2025-10-12 - YouTube

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Self-compassion is a vital part of the Buddhist path, especially in the West.

Here, Walt Opie shares personal stories and reflections on how difficult it can be to extend kindness toward ourselves, especially when we’re caught in patterns of self-judgment or perfectionism. Walt emphasizes that self-compassion isn’t selfish—it’s foundational. When we treat ourselves with care and understanding, we’re better able to show up for others and engage with the world from a place of balance and authenticity.

Walt also highlights several key practices and perspectives to cultivate self-compassion:

  1. Mindful awareness – noticing when we’re being hard on ourselves and gently shifting our inner dialogue.
  2. Loving-kindness (Metta) – directing phrases of goodwill inward, not just outward.
  3. Common humanity – remembering that suffering and imperfection are part of being human.
  4. Letting go of the inner critic – recognizing that harsh self-talk doesn’t lead to growth, but gentle encouragement might.
  5. Taking refuge in the Dharma – using the teachings as a source of support and clarity during difficult times.

Throughout the talk, Walt reminds us that self-compassion is a skill we can build—not a personality trait we either have or don’t. It’s a practice of returning to ourselves with warmth, patience, and the willingness to be imperfect.

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Via Daily Dharma: The Act of Mindful Breathing

 

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The Act of Mindful Breathing

The practice of mindful breathing is an act of self-love, a declaration of gratitude for this life, and a political act of empowerment in which we choose the present moment, even when that moment is filled with mourning.

Valerie Brown, “The Lightness of Breathing”


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Chinese Rituals of Death and the Afterlife
By Roger Jackson
Learn how the concept of karma made its way into Chinese culture.
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Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Intention: Cultivating Equanimity

 

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RIGHT INTENTION
Cultivating Equanimity
Whatever you intend, whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will become the basis on which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop meditation on equanimity, for when you develop meditation on equanimity, all aversion is abandoned. (MN 62) 

When a person, thinking a mental object with the mind, is not attached to pleasing mental objects and not repelled by unpleasing mental objects, they have established mindfulness and dwell with an unlimited mind. For a person whose mindfulness is developed and practiced, the mind does not struggle to reach pleasing mental objects, and unpleasing mental objects are not considered repulsive. (SN 35.274)
Reflection
Some objects in the world are naturally pleasing, and some are displeasing. This goes for our thoughts and other mental objects as well. Of course it feels good to think about some things and it feels bad to think of others, but whether we experience stress or suffering depends not on these facts but on our response to them. When attached, we struggle, and when we abide in our minds with equanimity, we are at peace.
Daily Practice
When you are settled for some time in a quiet place, turn your awareness to the thoughts and images that may be streaming through your mind. When you are caught by the content of these, you are swept along by the mental flow, but if you regard what is happening with equanimity, as a process of arising and passing mental objects, your mindfulness is developed and you are no longer favoring some thoughts over others.
Tomorrow: Refraining from Frivoulous Speech
One week from today: Cultivating Lovingkindness

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