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Thursday, March 30, 2023
Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Action: Reflecting upon Verbal Action
However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds, bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too verbal
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
When you are doing an action with speech, reflect upon that same verbal
action thus: “Does this action I am doing with speech lead to the
affliction of another?” If, upon reflection, you know that it does, then
stop doing it; if you know that it does not, then continue. (MN 61)
Reflection
Much of the
speech we utter just comes out, without a lot of forethought. This is
the kind of speech that often gets us in trouble or causes harm to
others. If we miss the opportunity to reflect on what we are going to
say before we say it, we have another chance to notice what we are
saying as we are saying it. Take advantage of this and pay attention to
what you are saying. Listen to yourself as you speak to others.
Daily Practice
Mindfulness is
the practice of being aware of what you are doing in the present moment,
and this can apply to speech as well as bodily and mental action. By
becoming aware of what you are saying as you are saying it, you are able
to access the ability to reflect on whether it is causing harm to
others or yourself. If you find you are saying anything hurtful, just
stop. Find another way of saying what you have to say.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Taking What is Not Given One week from today: Reflecting upon Mental Action
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