Thursday, January 30, 2025

Via Daily Dharma: Turning Toward Pain

 

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Turning Toward Pain

Turning toward our pain gets easier with practice. Gradually, we become less afraid of our discomfort.

Bodhipaksa, “Loving Pain”


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The Efforts of Others
By Rev. Dr. Kenji Akahoshi
A Shin Buddhist minister explains how gratitude can be the opening gate to a deeper spiritual practice.
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Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Action: Reflecting upon Verbal Action

 


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RIGHT ACTION
Reflecting Upon Verbal Action
However the seed is planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing good deeds, bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too verbal action is to be done with repeated reflection: (MN 61)

When you have done an action with speech, reflect upon that same verbal action thus: "Has this action I have done with speech led to my own affliction?" If, upon reflection, you know that it has, then tell someone you trust about it and undertake a commitment not to do it again. If you know it has not, then be content and feel happy about it.  (MN 61)
Reflection
People are always talking, if not to other people, then to themselves. And the words we use have consequences, sowing the seeds of both external and internal karma. External karma is the consequence of our actions in the world; internal karma is the effect of our thoughts and emotions on ourselves. This text is telling us that it is beneficial to reflect upon things you have said in the past, noticing anything that has been hurtful to yourself. It is not too late to change the pattern, to learn to speak to yourself and of yourself in healthier ways.

Daily Practice
Pay attention to what you say, both to others and to yourself. Notice if you find you are devaluing yourself—putting yourself down in some way or being harshly self-critical. As in the case of bodily action, revealing these things to another person who you trust and who has your best interests in mind can be unburdening. It is healthy to change unhealthy habits, even those that are the most intimate and personal.

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One week from today: Reflecting upon Mental Action

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Via Wildmind \\ Staying sane in turbulent times

 

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Staying sane in turbulent times

A lot of people who were shocked by the results of the US presidential election are now reeling with the pace and the nature of the political changes that are taking place.

So I want to offer some advice for staying sane in turbulent times, based on the mantra that's guiding my life at present:

  • Feet on the ground.
  • Heart wide open.
  • Keep looking upward.

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Wednesday, January 29, 2025

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Via Ram Dass - Love Serve Remember Foundation // Words of Wisdom - January 29, 2025 💠

 


"It is only when you begin to understand that if you and I are truly in love, if I go to the place in me that is love and you to the place in you that is love we are ‘together’ in Love. We start to understand that what love means is that we are sharing a common state together. That state exists in you and it exists in me."
 
- Ram Dass

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Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Speech: Refraining from Malicious Speech

 



RIGHT SPEECH
Refraining from Malicious Speech
Malicious speech is unhealthy. Refraining from malicious speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning malicious speech, one refrains from malicious speech. One does not repeat there what one has heard here to the detriment of these, or repeat here what he has heard there to the detriment of those. One unites those who are divided, is a promoter of friendships, and speaks words that promote concord. (DN 1) One practices thus: "Others may speak maliciously, but I shall abstain from malicious speech." (MN 8)

When others address you, their speech may be gentle or harsh … One is to train thus: "My mind will be unaffected, and I shall utter no bad words; I shall abide with compassion for their welfare, with a mind of lovingkindness, without inner hate." (MN 21)
Reflection
Our natural tendency is to soften to gentle words and retaliate against harsh speech. But the former can allow us to be exploited by the flatterer, and the latter allows the worst in others to bring out the worst in us. Equanimity in the face of harsh speech is not indifference or detachment; it is simply being aware without reactivity. It is not allowing our minds to be thrown off by what others say to us.

Daily Practice
This is a challenging practice but a helpful one. It encourages us to maintain a balanced state of mind in the face of any kind of speech. It may be easier to practice this at first with overhearing things in the media or the conversations of others, working up to being able to wish for the welfare of even those who speak harshly directly to you. It is not as hard as it sounds once you learn not to take everything others say personally.

Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Verbal Action
One week from today: Refraining from Harsh Speech

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Via Daily Dharma: Unlimited Love

 

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Unlimited Love

Once we recognize our layers of self-protection, we have the opportunity to remember that while we are limited beings, we have access to unlimited love. 

Satya Robyn, “On Wanting to Sound Good”


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Overwhelmed? Pay Attention
By Kimberly Brown
Choosing to direct our mindfulness and compassion to other living beings can help us deeply connect with everyone’s struggles and suffering—including our own.
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