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Wednesday, November 29, 2023
Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Speech: Refraining from False Speech
False speech is unhealthy.
Refraining from false speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning false speech,
one dwells refraining from false speech, a truth-speaker, one to be
relied on, trustworthy, dependable, not a deceiver of the world. One
does not in full awareness speak falsehood for one’s own ends or for
another’s ends or for some trifling worldly end. (DN 1) One practices
thus: "Others may speak falsely, but I shall abstain from false speech."
(MN 8)
Such speech as you know to be untrue, incorrect, and unbeneficial, as
well as unwelcome and disagreeable to others—do not utter such speech.
(MN 58)
Reflection
Integrity is
held to be of great value in Buddhist traditions, and speaking
truthfully at all times is an important practice in itself. Notice how
it is phrased as a naturally healthy thing to do. Notice also how it is
about changing your own behavior rather than trying to change others. We
refrain from false speech by noticing whenever the impulse to be
untruthful arises and simply abandoning it. Just do not say what is
untrue and unbeneficial.
Daily Practice
Working with
right speech can be one of the most challenging practices. The closer
you observe, the more you can notice subtle impulses to exaggerate,
omit, or lead astray when speaking. When you are speaking, bring an
extra measure of attentiveness to the moment just before you utter the
words. The gap between impulse and speech can be widened gradually with
practice, allowing for more conscious communication.
Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Bodily Action One week from today: Refraining from Malicious Speech
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