A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Monday, April 13, 2026
Via Daily Dharma: Unwavering Tranquility
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Via Dhamma Wheel | Right View: Understanding the Noble Truth of Suffering
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Via GBF \\\ "Leading with a Friendly Heart" – Sean Feit Oake
Another dharma talk is now available on the GBF website, podcast and YouTube channel:
Leading with a Friendly Heart – Sean Feit Oakes
How can we maintain a compassionate heart in a world defined by conflict?
Sean Feit Oakes shows us how we can use the Brahma Viharas—the “immeasurable” states of love, compassion, joy, and equanimity— to provide an internal sanctuary from the “poisons” of greed and hatred.
He explains that the Buddha taught these practices as the essential foundation for wisdom, inviting us to radiate a boundless friendliness that offers an escape from suffering within our own hearts.
Using the story of the “wounded king” Ajata Satu, Sean illustrates how even those burdened by terrible past actions can find solace through ethical living and metta (friendliness). He suggests transforming our “inheritance of toxicity” by leading with warmth in all areas of life:
- Universal Friendliness: Bringing a “benevolent” heart to every mundane interaction.
- Compassion: Allowing the heart to “quiver” or shatter in response to suffering rather than turning away.
- The Difficult Person: Wishing ease even for those who cause harm, acknowledging their basic desire for happiness.
- Self-Kindness: Shifting one’s internal dialogue to be tender and supportive—even calling oneself “sweetheart”—during difficult inner work.
By invoking this “boundless” friendliness, Sean argues that we can heal our own internal karma and ripple that change out into the community.
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Sunday, April 12, 2026
Via FB /// Baha'u'llah's words - and hopes:
Via Ram Dass - Love Serve Remember Foundation //Words of Wisdom - April 12, 2026 🌻 Inbox
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Via Daily Dharma: Five-Minute Meditation
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Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Mindfulness and Concentration: Establishing Mindfulness of Mental Objects and the Fourth Jhāna
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Thank you Ed!
I recently found out a mentor, academic\professional father figure of mine passed away.
THANK YOU ED, You are and will always be an eternal example for me...
I can truthfully say that without your mentorship there would not be a Prof. Orey. Your countless acts of patience with me, your civility, kindness, mentorship and guiding are eternally appreciated.
Your guiding me thru departamental politics, learnign to avoid snakes and lions... Helping juggle my schedule, going through promotion, and encouraging me when things were tough. The times we spent in our office hours just playing board games and discussing mathematics. The card games and poker club, Bay to Breakers, sharing ideas... my heart is full and so very grateful!
Your coaching of me, especially as a young father was essential.
When I went through a rather dramatic brake up and I was still in Brasil, "he who shall not be named" came to your office (by then you were Department Chair) and he demanded that you fire me, you told him that "if we fired people who divorced we loose 1/2 the faculty". Your civil calm, gentle way of telling people to f#"k off was a lesson forever learned as well. Your helping me thru that tough time, your helping Milton with his masters... well there are just no words.
My last contact with you was after surviving cancer, and trying to decide if I should retire or keep going... you encouraged me to keep going, and I will!
I can say that how I work with students and colleagues, especially now as I reach the end of my career, I use your example, strength through deep kindness and respect.
E=mc²
Thank you dear Prof Arnsdorf!


