I recently found out a mentor, academic\professional father figure of mine passed away.
THANK YOU ED, You are and will always be an eternal example for me...
I can truthfully say that without your mentorship there would not be a Prof. Orey. Your countless acts of patience with me, your civility, kindness, mentorship and guiding are eternally appreciated.
Your guiding me thru departamental politics, learnign to avoid snakes and lions... Helping juggle my schedule, going through promotion, and encouraging me when things were tough. The times we spent in our office hours just playing board games and discussing mathematics. The card games and poker club, Bay to Breakers, sharing ideas... my heart is full and so very grateful!
Your coaching of me, especially as a young father was essential.
When I went through a rather dramatic brake up and I was still in Brasil, "he who shall not be named" came to your office (by then you were Department Chair) and he demanded that you fire me, you told him that "if we fired people who divorced we loose 1/2 the faculty". Your civil calm, gentle way of telling people to f#"k off was a lesson forever learned as well. Your helping me thru that tough time, your helping Milton with his masters... well there are just no words.
My last contact with you was after surviving cancer, and trying to decide if I should retire or keep going... you encouraged me to keep going, and I will!
I can say that how I work with students and colleagues, especially now as I reach the end of my career, I use your example, strength through deep kindness and respect.
E=mc²
Thank you dear Prof Arnsdorf!




