A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
RIGHT LIVING Undertaking the Commitment to Abstain from Misbehaving Among Sensual Pleasures
Sensual misconduct is
unhealthy. Refraining from sensual misconduct is healthy. (MN 9)
Abandoning sensual misconduct, one abstains from misbehaving among
sensual pleasures. (MN 41) One practices thus: "Others may engage in
sensual misconduct, but I will abstain from sensual misconduct." (MN 8)
Relationships are of two kinds: to be cultivated and not to be
cultivated. Such relationships as cause, in one who cultivates them,
unhealthy states to increase and healthy states to diminish, such
relationships are not to be cultivated. But such relationships as cause,
in one who cultivates them, unhealthy states to diminish and healthy
states to increase, such relationships are to be cultivated. (MN 114)
Reflection
As with so many
other aspects of our lives, the relationships we foster and the company
we keep can be considered healthy or unhealthy, based on whether or not
they help us see more clearly and whether they bring about more or less
suffering. Since we influence one another so significantly, it is
important for our own well-being to nurture healthy relationships and
steer away from those that are unhealthy.
Daily Practice
See for
yourself whether any particular relationship in your life is
predominantly healthy or unhealthy. Do this not by some sort of
conceptual analysis but by noticing whether states of yearning,
resentment, and confusion increase or decrease when you are engaged with
this person. Also note whether states of sharing, caring, and
understanding increase or decrease. This is the actual measure of health
or unhealth in relationships.
Tomorrow: Developing Unarisen Healthy States One week from today: Abstaining from Intoxication
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Consoling
a sick friend, a Zen teacher untangles our separate self-existence
using a famous thought experiment of a hypothetical cat unobserved in a
black box.
However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds, bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too mental
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
When you wish to do an action with the mind, reflect upon that same
mental action thus: "Would this action I wish to do with the mind lead
to the affliction of another?" If, upon reflection, you know that it
would, then do not do it; if you know that it would not, then proceed.
(MN 61)
Reflection
It is the
nature of living beings to act. Every moment some sort of action is
called for. Even when we are physically remaining still and silent, the
mind is acting. Even deciding not to act is a mental act. Much
of the time it seems as if our mind is thinking us, rather than we are
thinking our mind. But with heightened awareness it is possible to open
up more space for influencing with our intention the direction our mind
takes.
Daily Practice
This teaching
is inviting us to participate in our mental life with some sort of
awareness and freedom of choice. Notice thoughts arising and passing
away much as you would watch bodily sensations arise and pass away. As
you become more aware of your intentions, examine whether they are
healthy or unhealthy, helpful or unhelpful. See if you can at least
catch up with your mind—and maybe even get a step ahead of it.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Misbehaving Among Sensual Pleasures One week from today: Reflecting upon Social Action
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The Sacred Polyester of Tibetan Khata Interview with Dr. Huatse Gyal by Karen Jensen
Once
made from wool, these highly symbolic textiles are now frequently made
of polyester—and quickly polluting the planet. Tricycle speaks with
anthropologist Huatse Gyal about their various meanings, history, and
the conundrum of religious waste.
Compassion on a Global Scale Rick Hanson interviewed by Ronn Smith
Dr.
Rick Hanson, who launched The Global Compassion Coalition (GCC) in
2022, has assembled a substantial group of like-minded individuals and
organizations in support of what he sees as essential for the future of
our planet.