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A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
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Accessing our Inner Strength
Anxiety,
heartbreak, and tenderness mark the in-between state. It's the kind of
place we usually want to avoid. The challenge is to stay in the middle
rather than buy into struggle and complaint. The challenge is to let it
soften us rather than make us more rigid and afraid. Becoming intimate
with the queasy feeling of being in the middle of nowhere only makes our
hearts more tender. When we are brave enough to stay in the middle,
compassion arises spontaneously. By not knowing, not hoping to know, and
not acting like we know what's happening, we begin to access our inner
strength.
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- Pema Chodron, "The In-between State"
Tuesday, January 8, 2013
Via JMG: Gays Shop At Crate & Barrel!!!
Somebody call One Million Moms, because two homosexual men are featured in the latest Crate & Barrel campaign, where they can be seen shamelessly flaunting their perversion all over their artfully staged fauxtique home. (Tipped by JMG reader Diane)
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Monday, January 7, 2013
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Developing Equanimity
When
we really see, in our mind’s eye, a person we think we don’t like, and
instead of solidifying our reasons for hatred we honestly wish them
happiness, good health, safety, and an easeful life, we start to forget
what we thought we hated and why we felt that way in the first place. A
sense of equanimity toward everyone arises as we do this practice—we
feel compassion for those who were once invisible to us, and our
disregard and apathy morph into concern for their well-being and safety.
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- Cyndi Lee, “May I Be Happy”
Sunday, January 6, 2013
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A Great Dharma Feast
When
we take words to be statements of ultimate truth, then differences of
opinion will inevitably result in conflict. This is where ideological
wars come from, and we see in the history of the world an endless amount
of suffering because of it. But if we see the words and the teachings
as different skillful means for liberating the mind, then they all
become part of a great dharma feast.
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- Joseph Goldstein, “One Dharma”
Saturday, January 5, 2013
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Our Common Enemy
If
we can begin to consider hatred as the enemy, as your and my enemy,
then we can begin to transform our anger into compassion. That will be
how we can take advantage of an unfortunate and tragic situation.
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- Nawang Gehlek Rimpoche, "The Real Enemy"
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Truth is Vulnerable
Truth
has no action. Truth is weak. Truth is not utilitarian, truth cannot be
organized. It is like the wind: You cannot catch it, you cannot take
hold of it in your fist and say, ‘I have caught it.’ Therefore it is
tremendously vulnerable, impotent like the blade of grass on the
roadside—you can kill it, you can destroy it. But we want it as a thing
to be used for a better structure of society. And I am afraid you cannot
use it, you cannot—it is like love, love is never potent. It is there
for you, take it or leave it.
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- Krishnamurti, "A Question of Heart"
Friday, January 4, 2013
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Thursday, January 3, 2013
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Working with Thoughts
It
is helpful at the beginning of your meditation practice to free
yourself from the idea that in order to meditate properly you must have
no thoughts. Instead, establish a different relationship with your
thoughts so that over time they can fade more effortlessly into the
background. All meditators have thoughts arising during their
practice—it’s what you do with them that matters.
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- Bob Sharples, "Do the Thoughts Ever Stop?"
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
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Developing Inner Wealth
It
looks like only one thing can save us: the development of inner wealth.
Then there’s a perfect circle, everything is good. When we’re in tune
with our inner wealth—the qualities of compassion, contentment,
patience, and so on—it’s endless, it’s timeless. Those are the qualities
that we’re born with. Everybody. The whole process of meditation is all about trying to dig into this inner wealth, to access it.
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- Trinlay Thaye Dorje, “Diamond-like Resolve”
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
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A New View for the New Year
We
have to look at what’s important in life, develop a strong sense of
priorities, and be willing to say no to the currents that would lead to
less worthwhile pleasures. As the Buddha said, if you see a greater
pleasure that comes from forsaking a lesser pleasure, be willing to
forsake that lesser pleasure for the greater one.
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- Thanissaro Bikkhu, “The Dignity of Restraint”
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Monday, December 31, 2012
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Deeper than Thought
It
is undeniable that others and the larger world, so beleaguered at this
moment in history, need everything that we have to give. But what to
give is the problem. It seems finally clear that we cannot find out what
to do simply by thinking about it. We need to gain our inspiration and
our direction from much deeper sources.
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- Reginald Ray, “Looking Inward, Seeing Outward”
Via AmericaBlog Gay:Interview with the gay military couple whose iconic “kiss” photo went viral this year (video)
You may recall the photo of the gay kiss, showing a Marine jumping into his boyfriend’s arms on coming home from Afghanistan.
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"Buddism
is not a spirituality. Buddhism is all about how to balance our social
life that comes with a understanding and appreciation to our inner
quality." - Kalu Rinpoche
Sunday, December 30, 2012
Via JMG: Obama Backs Illinois Marriage
Through his spokesman, President Obama has issued a statement in support of same-sex marriage in his home state of Illinois.
"While the president does not weigh in on every measure being considered by state legislatures, he believes in treating everyone fairly and equally, with dignity and respect," White House spokesman Shin Inouye told the Chicago Sun-Times on Saturday.As noted above, the current bill will be presented during the lame duck session which ends in just a few weeks. When the new legislature is seated, Democrats will hold a super-majority in both chambers.
"As he has said, his personal view is that it's wrong to prevent couples who are in loving, committed relationships, and want to marry, from doing so. Were the President still in the Illinois State Legislature, he would support this measure that would treat all Illinois couples equally," Inouye said.
The lead sponsors of the "Religious Freedom and Marriage Fairness Act," state Sen. Heather Steans (D-Chicago) and state Rep. Greg Harris (D-Chicago), intend to put the measure up for a vote during the upcoming January lame-duck session. The toughest challenge for gay marriage backers will be winning passage in the Illinois House. Prospects for approval in the Illinois Senate--where Obama once served--are brighter.
Labels: Barack Obama, Illinois, marriage equality
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Self-arising Happiness
The
more clearly we see the lack of worth in mental and physical
sensations, the less desire we'll have for them until, thoroughly
disenchanted, craving will be snuffed out automatically. As soon as that
occurs, pure happiness will arise by itself.
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- Cynthia Thatcher, "What's So Great About Now?"
Saturday, December 29, 2012
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Do Not Seek Anything Else
There
is a simple way to become a buddha: When you refrain from unwholesome
actions, are not attached to birth and death, and are compassionate
toward all sentient beings, respectful to seniors and kind to juniors,
not excluding or desiring anything, with no designing thoughts or
worries, you will be called a buddha. Do not seek anything else.
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- Eihei Dogen, “Birth and Death”
Friday, December 28, 2012
Via JMG: Uruguay Postpones Marriage Vote
Uruguay's Senate was widely expected to pass its marriage equality bill today. No such luck. Via On Top Magazine:
The “Marriage Equality Law” seeks to modify some 20 articles of the Civil Code, including whose surname goes first when children are named. Opponents asked for the bill's vote to be postponed until the Senate's first meeting in April to allow more time to study the proposal. The request received unanimous approval. The bill has already received an initial nod in the Senate and it cleared the nation's lower house earlier this month. President Jose Mujica has said he'll sign the bill into law. Uruguay currently recognizes gay couples with civil unions. After a couple has lived in a “stable relationship” for 5 years, they may petition the government for the recognition.Another report notes that senators opposed to the bill claimed that the ruling party was trying to rush the bill through without "the normal procedures."
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Via JMG: Lambda Legal Rated Top LGBT Org
Guidestar, the watchdog site for non-profits, has ranked Lambda Legal as having the best practices among the LGBT rights and progressive organizations it monitors. Lambda Legal reacts via press release:
"I am very proud of the amazing talent and leadership of the Lambda Legal staff, board and volunteers that has resulted in this top ranking from our colleagues and peers," said Kevin Cathcart, Executive Director of Lambda Legal. "We have been fighting for equality for LGBT people and people with HIV for forty years, and we have many victories and achievements about which we are proud because they have changed people's lives - and our society - for the better. This is a transformational time in our movement for LGBT equality. Lambda Legal will continue to lead the way with all our energy and all our hearts. We are grateful to all our supporters and colleagues around the country, and thank those who have honored us with this top ranking for 2012."Rounding out Guidestar's top five:
2. ACLU
3. GLSEN
4. NCLR
5. NGLTF
See the rest of the list.
Labels: ACLU, GLSEN, Lambda Legal, LGBT rights, NCLR
Via JMG: BRITAIN: Marriage Support Surges
Public support for same-sex marriage has surged across Britain in just the last few months. The Guardian reports:
The ICM poll conducted just before Christmas found 62% of voters now support the proposals, with half this number – 31% – opposed. Most previous polls have found opinion leaning the same way, although the two-to-one margin revealed on Wednesday is particularly emphatic. An ICM online survey for the Sunday Telegraph in March asked the identical question – which expressly reminds people that the option of civil partnerships already exists for gay couples – and established a 45%-36% lead for the reformers. That significant hardening of opinion during the year will encourage Cameron, whose embrace of gay marriage has proved controversial, not only with religious leaders but also with the Tory backbench. And the new poll reveals a particularly significant swing towards the reform among the Tory base.
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Via JMG: Dutch Catholics "Debaptize" Themselves Over Pope's Anti-Gay Comments
Years ago I posted about the "debaptism" movement in which Catholics request that their names formally be stricken from the memberships rolls of their local diocese. This month that (mostly) symbolic move has gained steam in the Netherlands due to Pope Ratzinger's incessant attacks on same-sex marriage.
Tom Roes, whose website allows people to download the documents needed to leave the church, said traffic on ontdopen.nl – "de-baptise.nl" – had soared from about 10 visits a day to more than 10,000 after Pope Benedict's latest denunciation of gay marriage this month. "Of course it's not possible to be 'de-baptized' because a baptism is an event, but this way people can unsubscribe or de-register themselves as Catholics," Roes told Reuters. He said he did not know how many visitors to the site actually go ahead and leave the church. About 28 percent of the population in the Netherlands is Catholic and 18 percent is Protestant, while a much larger proportion – roughly 44 percent – is not religious, according to official statistics. The country is famous for its liberal attitudes, for example to drugs and prostitution, and in April 2001 it was the first nation in the world to legalize same-sex marriages.RELATED: Early this year a French man successfully sued to have his name removed from the baptismal records of his diocese. He was the first in his nation to be officially debaptized. In Germany, about 200,000 Catholics have filed the paperwork declaring that they will no longer pay the religion tax which is allocated to the Catholic Church.
NOTE: The above certificate is from Britain's Secular Society.
Labels: Catholic Church, debaptism, LGBT rights, marriage equality, Netherlands, organized crime, pope, religion
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The Equality of Praise and Blame
If
we really stop to think about praise and criticism, we will see they do
not have the least importance. Whether we receive praise or criticism
is of no account. The only important thing is that we have a pure
motivation, and let the law of cause and effect be our witness.
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- H.H. the Dalai Lama, “Bad Reputation”
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Thursday, December 27, 2012
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Confidence in Truth
From
the habit of speaking truthfully confidence is acquired, since there is
no need then to dissemble or conceal the truth. Moreover, the speaker
of truth inspires confidence in others who come to know that they may
rely implicitly on his words.
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- Hammalawa Saddatissa, “Right Speech”
Wednesday, December 26, 2012
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Alive and Happy
We
cannot enjoy life if we spend our time and energy worrying about what
happened yesterday and what will happen tomorrow. If we’re afraid all
the time, we miss out on the wonderful fact that we’re alive and can be
happy right now.
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- Thich Nhat Hanh, “Free From Fear”
Tuesday, December 25, 2012
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Merry Christmas
Many
people are extending love, the simple wish for us to be happy—and have
been since the day we were born. What is remarkable to me is what
happens when we are willing to notice it. And even more remarkable is
what happens when we are willing to receive it.
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- John Makransky, “Love Is All Around”
Monday, December 24, 2012
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Joy in Giving
Because
generosity is characterized by the inner quality of letting go or
relinquishing, it reverses the forces that create suffering. It is a
profound antidote to the strong habits of clinging, grasping, guarding,
and attachment that lead to so much pain and suffering. Generosity
brings happiness at every stage of its expression: we experience joy in
forming the intention to give, we experience joy in the action of
giving, and we experience joy in remembering that we have given.
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- Beth Roth, “Family Dharma: The Joy of Generosity”
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Sunday, December 23, 2012
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The Purpose of Precepts
The
Buddhist precepts are not intended to force us into a particular way of
behaving but to encourage us to reflect on our motivations and actions.
Since the aim of a Buddhist life is to diminish suffering, Buddhist
ethics are rooted in compassion and wisdom. We attend to our own
suffering and the suffering of others, and we understand that our
intentions and actions have consequences.
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- Martine Batchelor, “The Buddhist Precepts: An Introduction”
Saturday, December 22, 2012
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