Tricycle Daily Dharma March 16, 2013
Being Grateful for our Mistakes
It’s only our mistakes that bring us to the place where we should have been all along.
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- Pico Iyer, "My Bad"
A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
It’s only our mistakes that bring us to the place where we should have been all along.
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Dexter McNamara, chairman of the 4,600-member Little Traverse Bay Bands of Odawa Indians in northern Michigan, wed Tim LaCroix, 53, and Gene Barfield, 60, of Boyne City. After McNamara read the couple's vows and led the ceremony in English, a member of the tribe followed and conducted a tribal ceremony in their language. "How could the world be better? How could the world be better? … I'm just full of joy and happiness and I love my husband," Barfield said. "We’re so unbelievably grateful to the tribe and so full of respect for their position in this.”The couple met 30 years ago when they were stationed at Orlando's Naval Training Center.

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Just
as a person mired in quicksand cannot help another until he has himself
reached firm ground, our ability to help others depends chiefly on
keeping our own balance.
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Compassion
is not condescension, but a leveling of the playing field, a
recognition of yourself in others and an acceptance that their stress is
your stress, that their happiness is your own. The gulf between us all
is imaginary, born of insecurity and fear.
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“Clearly, Americans believe the prerogative exists for individuals such as clergy or photographers to deny services for same-sex marriage,” said Ed Stetzer, president of LifeWay Research. “However, the level of agreement changes with scenarios that could be interpreted as more basic rights such as housing and employment.” Consistent in all scenarios of the survey, men are more likely than women to agree these individuals should have the right to refuse services, rental agreements or employment -- as are Americans calling themselves “born-again, evangelical or fundamentalist Christian.”Hit the second link for the full survey results.