Saturday, October 30, 2021

Via Lion’s Roar \\ Sugar Skulls

 

Sugar Skulls

Día de los Muertos is a reminder, says Linda González, that we are all one in life and death.
As I entered deeper into my Buddhist path, Día de los Muertos aligned easily with the four noble truths. Remembering mi gente each year lessens my suffering while reminding me there is a path to healing unfinished business, even after death. This well-worn yearly path begins with a musty container of pictures and mementos. I set up an altar below the shelf that holds my Buddhist altar and smile while taping up an image of a skeleton sitting zazen. Sometimes I move pictures of those who have passed that year from the upper altar to the lower one. This year Ethel, my twins’ sweet dog, will journey down. So will my brother. But my parents will stay on my Buddhist altar, tiny beside the bronze statue of Amida Buddha. I love the serendipity of them next to the buddha that I turn to for comfort.  
 

Via Daily Dharma: Compassion Means Showing Up

Sometimes suffering can be intense and have no easy resolution. In those kinds of situations, compassion is bearing with the impulses to try to prematurely solve situations. Compassion becomes our willingness to keep showing up: to listen deeply, bear witness, and be with suffering.

—Christina Feldman and Chris Cullen, “An Appropriate Response”

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Via White Crane Institute \\ Today's Gay Wisdom: JOHN ADAMS

 

Today's Gay Wisdom
President John Adams
1735 -

JOHN ADAMS, was born on this date. The second President of the United States who said,

Remember, democracy never lasts long. It soon wastes, exhausts, and murders itself. There is never a democracy that did not commit suicide. It is in vain to say that democracy is less vain, less proud, less selfish, less ambitious, or less avaricious than aristocracy or monarchy. It is not true, in fact, and nowhere appears in history. Those passions are the same in all men, under all forms of simple government, and when unchecked, produce the same effects of fraud, violence, and cruelty.

-- Letter to John Taylor, 1814


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Friday, October 29, 2021

Via Tricycle \\ Parting Words: journey to emptiness

 


Parting Words: journey to emptiness
By Tran Le Khanh
Vietnamese poet Tran Le Khanh’s words come alive in a new translation from his collection the beginning of water.
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Via Daily Dharma: Reality Is Beyond Fear

Reality is beyond hope and fear, doubt, and wrong views. When we fear uncertainty, we are not in accord with reality.

—Renée Ford, “Trust in Times of Uncertainty”

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Thursday, October 28, 2021

Via Daily Dharma: Facets of Awareness

 

Awareness is like a crystal or mirror that reflects different colors and angles: forms, sounds, and feelings are different aspects of awareness and exist within awareness.

—Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche with Helen Tworkov, “Leaving Everything Behind”

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Via White Crane Institute // Frank Ocean

 


FRANK OCEAN, born on this date, is an American singer, songwriter, record producer, rapper, photographer, and visual artist. He is recognized for his idiosyncratic musical style, introspective and elliptical songwriting, and wide vocal range. Music critics have credited him with  revitalizing jazz and funk  influenced R&B, as well as advancing the genre through his experimental approach.He is considered a representative artist of alternative R&B.

Ocean began his musical career as a ghostwriter, prior to joining the hip hop collective Odd Future in 2010. In 2011, Ocean released his critically successful debut mixtape Nostalgia, Ultra and subsequently secured a recording contract with Def Jam Recordings. Drawing on electro-funk, pop-soul, jazz-funk, and psychedelia, Ocean's debut studio album Channel Orange  was one of the most acclaimed albums of 2012. It was nominated for Album of the Year and won Best Urban Contemporary Album at the 2013 Grammy Awards, while the album's hit single "Thinkin Bout You" garnered Ocean a nomination for Record of the Year.

Ocean wrote an open letter, initially intended for the liner notes on Channel Orange, that preemptively addressed speculation about his attraction in the past to another man. Instead, on July 4, 2012, he published the open letter on his Tumblr blog recounting unrequited feelings he had for another young man when he was 19 years old, citing it as his first true love. He used the blog to thank the man for his influence, and also thanked his mother and other friends, saying, "I don't know what happens now, and that's alright. I don't have any secrets I need kept anymore... I feel like a free man." Numerous celebrities publicly voiced their support for Ocean following his announcement, including Beyoncé and Jay-Z. Members of the hip hop industry generally responded positively to the announcement. Tyler, the Creator and other members of OFWGKTA tweeted their support for Ocean. Russell Simmons wrote a congratulatory article in Global Grind in which he said, "Today is a big day for hip-hop. It is a day that will define who we really are. How compassionate will we be? How loving can we be? How inclusive are we? [...] Your decision to go public about your sexual orientation gives hope and light to so many young people still living in fear." When asked if he considers himself bisexual in a 2012 interview, Ocean stated: "I'll respectfully say that life is dynamic and comes along with dynamic experiences, and the same sentiment that I have towards genres of music, I have towards a lot of labels and boxes and shit."

In June 2016, following the Orlando nightclub shooting that killed 49 people, Ocean published an essay expressing his sadness and frustration. He mentioned that his first experience with homophobia and transphobia was with his father when he was six years old, and related how many people pass on their hateful ideals to the next generation and send thousands of people down suicidal paths. In 2017, Ocean's father subsequently sued him for defamation and requested $14.5 million. In October 2017, after a hearing that saw Ocean and both of his parents taking the stand, the presiding judge ruled in favor of Ocean, stating that his father had not provided sufficient evidence of defamation.


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Wednesday, October 27, 2021

Via The Atlantic // The Evangelical Church Is Breaking Apart Christians must reclaim Jesus from his church.


 

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Via Daily Dharma: Wisdom Is Right Here

 

Wisdom is not somewhere else. It’s not in someone else. It’s right here in our own bottomless heart.

—Aura Glaser, “Into the Demon’s Mouth”

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Via Ram Dass - Love Serve Remember Foundation // Words of Wisdom - October 27, 2021 💌

 
 

See spiritual practice as one of relinquishing definitions of one’s self in order to come into the present. See the spiritual journey as one of coming into the space of love. Look at the people you don’t love and see them as an exercise for you to open your heart.

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Via Daily Dharma: Skillful Anger

 

Anger can be a powerful and necessary force for change. But to use it skillfully, we need methods to transform it. This requires us to be centered and to create the change within ourselves that will lead to wise action in the world.

—Lama Tsultrim Allione, “Nasty Woman Meditation”

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Monday, October 25, 2021

Via Daily Dharma: Genuine Compassion

Genuine compassion is uncomfortable. It’s difficult. It’s maybe even a little bit scary. But this is why it is so important, and why it has the potential to be so powerful.

—Constance Kassor, “The Discomfort of Compassion”

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Sunday, October 24, 2021

Shared during Gay Buddhist Fellowship today

 

Clearing – Martha Postlewaite

 

Do not try to save

the whole world

or do anything grandiose.

Instead, create

a clearing

in the dense forest

of your life

and wait there

patiently,

until the song

that is your life

falls into your own cupped hands

and you recognize and greet it.

Only then will you know

how to give yourself

to this world

so worth of rescue.

Via Tricycle \\ What Do You Believe Now?

 


What Do You Believe Now?
Directed by Sarah Feinbloom
Six millennials from across the religious spectrum share their struggles, aspirations, and beliefs as teenagers and again in their 30s.
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Via Daily Dharma: Keep Faith

 

Faith is a necessary element of the spiritual path. Faith, practice, and study are the essential building blocks for the development of a fully realized life.

—Myokei Caine-Barrett, Shonin, “Chanting as the Whole of Life”

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Via Ram Dass - Love Serve Remember Foundation \\ Words of Wisdom - October 24, 2021 💌

 
 

My own strategy is to keep cultivating the witness, that part of me that notices how I’m doing it — to cultivate the quiet place in me that watches the process of needing approval, of the smile on the face, of the false humility, of all the horrible creepy little psychological things that are just my humanity. And watching them occur again and again and again. 

- Ram Dass -

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