A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Thursday, June 6, 2013
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Wednesday, June 5, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma June 5, 2013
Not Judging our Emotions
There
isn’t any such thing as a negative emotion. There are negative things
that we do with our emotions, but our emotions themselves are neither
negative nor positive.
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- Robert Augustus Masters, "From Spiritual Bypassing"
Tuesday, June 4, 2013
Via JMG: Quote Of The Day - Rep. Earl Blumenauer
"Let's get real and stop the charade about what a 'social welfare' organization is. Last year, internal National Organization for Marriage (NOM) strategy documents were leaked, stating that the organization seeks 'to drive a wedge between gays and blacks' by promoting "African American spokespeople for marriage,' thus provoking same-sex marriage supporters into 'denouncing these spokesmen and women as bigots,' and "to interrupt the assimilation" of Latinos into 'dominant Anglo culture' by making the stance against same-sex marriage 'a key badge of Latino identity.'
"Does this sound like social welfare to you? Social welfare organizations should work in the public interest -- not to divide, exploit, and conquer. When I brought this up at the hearing today, Dr. Eastman, Chairman of the Board of NOM, angrily groused, 'To say that defending traditional marriage doesn't qualify for defense of the public good is beyond preposterous.'
"To Dr. Eastman, I say that it is the denial of my constituents, and all Americans, the right to marry the person they love is preposterous. To exploit racial and religious differences so you can fundraise for and enforce your specific worldview is preposterous. But your right to be preposterous should not extend to taking political positions under the guise of a social welfare organization, raising money and campaigning." - Rep. Earl Blumenauer (D-OR), writing for the Huffington Post.
Labels: bigotry, Catholic Church, Congress, Earl Blumenauer, FTW, hate groups, John Eastman, NOM, racism, religion, Vatican
Via JMG: AFER Graphic On Prop 8 Outcomes
The Supreme Court is expected to issue its ruling this month. Rulings come on Mondays, so the next possible date is June 10th.
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Via JMG: Hate Groups Diss Gay Ark Painting
Gay artist Paul Richmond has created
the above painting titled "Noah's Gay Wedding Cruise: MarriageEvolved
Edition." Among the "drowning sinners" are Ann Coulter, former Sen.
Larry Craig, Oklahoma state Rep. Sally Kern, and Westboro founder Fred
Phelps.
Saved on the ark are Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi, Elton John and David Furnish, and Joshua and Steve Snyder-Hill, the founders of MarriageEvolved. NOM's Frank Schubert weighs in at the Christian Post:
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Saved on the ark are Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi, Elton John and David Furnish, and Joshua and Steve Snyder-Hill, the founders of MarriageEvolved. NOM's Frank Schubert weighs in at the Christian Post:
"Since those couples are inherently unable to accomplish the very thing that God intended for those who inhabited the ark – the procreation of the earth following His wrath for failing to follow His commandments." "Marriage is intrinsically the union of one man and one woman," Schubert said. "Government didn't create marriage, it merely recognizes what nature and nature's God created. Marriage was designed to bring men and women together because only those unions have the capacity to create new life.The Family Research Council's Peter Sprigg feels the same:
"The rainbow is God's symbol, not an LGBT symbol. It's particularly bizarre to use Noah's Ark," he said, noting that same-sex couples are incapable of natural reproduction, which is why same-sex is not included in the definition of marriage, and isn't recognized as marriage in most states.The artist and his partner will be among 25 couples that will take the C-Bus Of Love to Washington DC on June 21st for a marriage ceremony outside the Supreme Court. That angers Peter Sprigg, who claims that since prayers are forbidden on the steps of the Court because that would be considered a political protest, a same-sex wedding ceremony should also be banned. Sprigg: "They're definitely trying to influence public opinion, and I hope people see through it."
Labels: activism, Frank Schubert, FRC, gay artists, marriage equality, MarriageEvolved, NOM, Peter Sprigg, SCOTUS
Via JMG: Broken Bargain For LGBT Workers
A new report from the Movement Advancement Project:
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A landmark new report released today examines how lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) workers might have the same job as a coworker, yet be legally fired, denied equal benefits and be required to pay thousands of dollars more in taxes simply because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. A Broken Bargain: Discrimination, Fewer Benefits and More Taxes for LGBT Workers illustrates how America’s basic bargain—that those who work hard can get ahead—is broken for LGBT workers. The report vividly shows how antiquated and discriminatory laws make it harder for LGBT workers to provide for themselves and their families, and offers detailed policy recommendations for addressing those inequities.Read the full report.
Labels: employment, ENDA, insurance, LGBT rights
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Tricycle Daily Dharma June 4, 2013
Suffering Guaranteed
Of
course we need to practice compassion in individual thoughts and
acts—these are the bread and butter of practice, the real test. But
where we see political and economic systems guaranteed to generate
tragedy and despair, we must also respond to transform and humanize
those systems.
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- David Edwards, "Life Or Death"
Monday, June 3, 2013
Via JMG: Updated Global Marriage Map
After last week's first gay wedding in France, the Agency France-Presse posted the above map.
Reposted from Joe
Labels: Argentina, Belgium, Brazil, Canada, Denmark, France, Netherlands, New Zealand, Norway, Portugal, South Africa, Spain, Sweden, Uruguay
Via JMG: Bar Association Group Issues Resolution Against Gay & Trans "Panic" Defenses
Via press release:
The National LGBT Bar Association applauds the American Bar Association’s Criminal Justice Section for taking up a resolution to protect victims of so called gay and trans “panic” legal defenses. The resolution supports the LGBT community by no longer allowing defense attorneys to use victims’ identities or their sexual orientation against them in court.The American Bar Association's House Of Delegates must approve the resolution at their annual meeting in August in order for it to become official ABA policy.
“This resolution puts an end to a longstanding injustice in our legal system and gives a voice to countless lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender victims of violence, one we never hear because they are no longer here to speak for themselves,” said D’Arcy Kemnitz, executive director of the LGBT Bar.
Gay and trans “panic” defense tactics ask a jury to find that a victim’s sexual orientation or gender identity is to blame for the defendant’s excessively violent reaction. The perpetrator claims that the victim’s sexual orientation or gender identity not only explain – but excuse – their loss of self-control and subsequent assault of an LGBT individual. By fully or partially acquitting the perpetrators of crimes against LGBT victims, these defenses imply that LGBT lives are worth less than others.
Labels: ABA, gay panic, hate crimes
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Tricycle Daily Dharma June 3, 2013
The Gifts Along the Way
The
narratives implicit in spiritual training often contain misdirection of
various kinds, under the shadow of which other kinds of change and
growth, noticed and unnoticed, may be occurring. In the grand narrative
of the voyage from samsara to nirvana, we may tend to overlook all kinds
of unsought gifts that befall us along the way.
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- Henry Shukman, "A Matter of Misdirection"
Sunday, June 2, 2013
Via JMG: LIVE VIDEO: Sao Paulo Pride
The world's largest gay pride event is underway in Sao Paulo and you can watch it live here. Crowd estimates range as high as four million. Their first parade in 1997 only had 2000 participants!
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Tricycle Daily Dharma June 2, 2013
How to Receive
The
Buddha encouraged us to think of the good things done for us by our
parents, by our teachers, friends, whomever; and to do this
intentionally, to cultivate it, rather than just letting it happen
accidentally.
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- Ajahn Sumedho, “The Gift of Gratitude”
Via JMG: Religion Recovery Hotline Project
The Friendly Atheist reports that a national hotline
will be launched to support people who may be considering leaving their
religion. The hotline's site notes that callers will not be encouraged
to become atheists.
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Responders will absolutely NOT urge any form of belief or disbelief. In fact, our volunteers will be specifically trained to never debate callers under any circumstances. Recovering From Religion is passionate about meeting people where THEY are at on the spectrum of disbelief. It’s not our place to do anything but encourage exploration and discovery, and to provide a solid support structure as people reconsider the role of religion in their lives. For many, this is a long process and we will be with them every step of the way. For some, they might be taking a smaller step by exploring a more liberal church, or by finding the confidence to assert their financial independence from tithing..Hit the link for much more. The group is taking donations.
Saturday, June 1, 2013
Via Tricycle Daily Dharma:
Tricycle Daily Dharma June 1, 2013
A Practical Perspective on Karma
The
whole point of karma is to recognize how our actions determine our
future, so that we can begin to act properly. It’s not just a
cosmological or philosophical matter. It’s entirely practical. The main
point is not to get in trouble again.
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- Matthieu Ricard, "Karma Crossroads"
Friday, May 31, 2013
JMG Quote Of The Day - Dan Savage
"I tell this story in the book of being at this park in Seattle many years ago, where a limo pulls up and a bride and a groom tumble out to get their portraits at this very famous park with a beautiful view of downtown Seattle. And as they're walking back to the limo everyone starts to applaud, and rightly so. Everyone takes delight when two people find each other and make that commitment. I was standing there clapping next to these two older gentlemen with two big dogs. It was clear that they were gay and I was gay. And as they get into their car, the one closest to me looks at me and says, `We are always happy for them. Would it kill them to be happy for us?' We've reached that tipping point, where they are happy for us. Now you see straight people looking at gay people and recognizing something about themselves in us." - Dan Savage, speaking to the Associated Press.
Via JMG: Obama Issues Pride 2013 Proclamation
Friday, May 31, 2013
Obama Issues Pride 2013 Proclamation
This afternoon the White House
issued President Obama's proclamation in recognition of LGBT Pride
Month. The message cites the president's support for ENDA, the federal
bill to overturn DOMA, and HIV reduction campaigns
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For more than two centuries, our Nation has struggled to transform the ideals of liberty and equality from founding promise into lasting reality. Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) Americans and their allies have been hard at work on the next great chapter of that history -- from the patrons of The Stonewall Inn who sparked a movement to service members who can finally be honest about who they love to brave young people who come out and speak out every day. This year, we celebrate LGBT Pride Month at a moment of great hope and progress, recognizing that more needs to be done.
Support for LGBT equality is growing, led by a generation which understands that, in the words of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., "injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." In the past year, for the first time, voters in multiple States affirmed marriage equality for same-sex couples. State and local governments have taken important steps to provide much-needed protections for transgender Americans.
My Administration is a proud partner in the journey toward LGBT equality. We extended hate crimes protections to include attacks based on sexual orientation or gender identity and repealed "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." We lifted the HIV entry ban and ensured hospital visitation rights for LGBT patients. Together, we have investigated and addressed pervasive bullying faced by LGBT students, prohibited discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity in Federal housing, and extended benefits for same-sex domestic partners. Earlier this year, I signed a reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) that prohibits discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity in the implementation of any VAWA-funded program.
And because LGBT rights are human rights, my Administration is implementing the first-ever Federal strategy to advance equality for LGBT people around the world. We have witnessed real and lasting change, but our work is not complete. I continue to support a fully inclusive Employment Non-Discrimination Act, as well as the Respect for Marriage Act. My Administration continues to implement the Affordable Care Act, which beginning in 2014, prohibits insurers from denying coverage to consumers based on their sexual orientation or gender identity, as well as the National HIV/AIDS Strategy, which addresses the disparate impact of the HIV epidemic among certain LGBT sub-communities.
We have a long way to go, but if we continue on this path together, I am confident that one day soon, from coast to coast, all of our young people will look to the future with the same sense of promise and possibility. I am confident because I have seen the talent, passion, and commitment of LGBT advocates and their allies, and I know that when voices are joined in common purpose, they cannot be stopped.
NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and the laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim June 2013 as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Pride Month. I call upon the people of the United States to eliminate prejudice everywhere it exists, and to celebrate the great diversity of the American people.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this thirty-first day of May, in the year of our Lord two thousand thirteen, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-seventh. - Barack Obama.
Labels: Barack Obama, gay Pride, White House
Via Gay Politics Report
Politics and Policy
Nigerian lawmakers pass sweeping anti-gay measure
Same-sex couples who marry could each face as much as 14 years in prison under a law awaiting the signature of Nigerian President Goodluck Jonathan. The bill, which was previously passed in the Senate, was approved Thursday in the House unanimously and without discussion. The new law also criminalizes participation in LGBT rights groups, as well as public displays of affection, which could bring sentences of as many as 10 years behind bars. The Washington Post/The Associated Press (5/30)
Nigerian lawmakers pass sweeping anti-gay measure
Same-sex couples who marry could each face as much as 14 years in prison under a law awaiting the signature of Nigerian President Goodluck Jonathan. The bill, which was previously passed in the Senate, was approved Thursday in the House unanimously and without discussion. The new law also criminalizes participation in LGBT rights groups, as well as public displays of affection, which could bring sentences of as many as 10 years behind bars. The Washington Post/The Associated Press (5/30)
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Tricycle Daily Dharma May 31, 2013
What is Happiness?
Whatever
realization may come by way of silence, our happiness is never won that
way. Happiness is not happiness unless it is shared. For happiness is
the one thing in all the world that comes to us only at the moment we
give it, and is likewise increased by being given away.
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- Clark Strand, “The Wisdom of Frogs”
Thursday, May 30, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma May 30, 2013
A Sense of Closeness
It
is not sufficient merely to see that sentient beings are suffering. You
must also develop a sense of closeness with them, a sense that they are
dear. With that combination‚ you can develop compassion.
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- Jeffrey Hopkins, "Everyone as a Friend"
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
Via JMG: The Three-Pronged Pitchfork Of Bigotry
"The first prong is political. When a politician like Marco Rubio is willing to sacrifice his career defining immigration reform legislation solely to insure that gays and lesbians are denied equal protection under the law, we have to admit that we're under attack. This is not pragmatic politics at work. These are the policies of bias, exclusion and unfairness.
"The second wave is the steady barrage coming from those who would call themselves moral leaders. Shielded behind lecterns, they assign condemnation with impunity. Claiming to be brimming with the love of their creator, they spew forth the cowardice of the mob. Fundamentalism, whether raining down terror abroad or in homilies from our home parishes, is the enemy. It is the death knell of tolerance, progress and compromise. Fundamentalism is, in all practicality, nothing but an invitation to bigotry.
"And thirdly, when we excuse homophobia as a matter of opinion instead of treating it as a destructive social illness, we invite fear to explode into violence. How often are the perpetrators of hate-crimes discovered to be self-loathing? Valued individuals do not strike out against strangers." - Harvey Fierstein, writing for the Huffington Post.
Read the full essay.
Labels: bigotry, Broadway, gay artists, gay writers, Harvey Fierstein, hate crimes, hate speech, religion
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Tricycle Daily Dharma May 29, 2013
Fostering a Meditative Life
Don’t
be a slave to style. Don’t take more from the world than you’re willing
to give back. And learn to undo the perceptions—so heavily promoted by
the media—that shopping is a form of therapy and that a purchase is
nothing but a victory or a gain.
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- Thanissaro Bhikkhu, "Skillful Shelter"
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Via JMG: European Court Rules Against Refusing Service To Gays On Religious Grounds
The European Court of Human Rights has ruled that it is legal to discipline employees for refusing to provide services to same-sex couples on the basis of religious objections. The ruling came in the cases of three British Christians who had refused to perform relationship counseling or conduct civil partnership ceremonies.
Tuesday's decision was welcomed by the National Secular Society. The group's executive director, Keith Porteous Wood, said: "Fortunately, Europe's highest court has now wisely followed numerous lower courts and rejected the applicants' attempts for religious conscience to trump equality law. "The UK has the world's most comprehensive equality laws which already include strong protection for religious believers and they would have been fatally compromised, particularly for LGBT people, had the Grand Chamber overturned any of these judgments. "We hope that this will now draw a line under the attempts by a small coterie of Christian activists to obtain special privileges for themselves which would invariably come at the expense of other people's rights."The Court is based in Strasbourg, France. (Tipped by JMG reader Julian)
Labels: bigotry, employment, Europe, religion
Via JMG: Frank Rich On LGBT History
"As we just learned, a man can still be murdered for being gay a few blocks away from the Stonewall Inn. But the rapidity of change has been stunning. The world only spins forward, as Tony Kushner wrote. And yet as we celebrate the forward velocity of gay rights, I think we must glance backward as well. History is being lost in this shuffle—that of those gay men and women who experienced little or none of today’s freedoms. Whatever the other distinctions between the struggles of black Americans and gay Americans for equality under the law—starting with the overarching horror of slavery—one difference is intrinsic. Black people couldn’t (for the most part) hide their identity in an America that treated them cruelly. Gay people could hide and, out of self-protection, often did. That’s why their stories were cloaked in silence and are at risk of being forgotten."- Frank Rich, opening his New York Magazine article on LGBT history and his surrogate gay father.
Read the full essay.
Via Gay Poltics Report:
Will recent marriage legislation affect Supreme Court cases?
The U.S. Supreme Court is expected to rule in June on two marriage-equality cases, but those opinions could change between now and then depending on how the justices view recent legislative victories for marriage-equality proponents, according to this analysis. Current events have affected written decisions in the past, and the court has likely noticed that three states enacted marriage-equality laws in a 10-day span in May alone.
The Boston Globe (tiered subscription model)/The Associated Press (5/28)
The U.S. Supreme Court is expected to rule in June on two marriage-equality cases, but those opinions could change between now and then depending on how the justices view recent legislative victories for marriage-equality proponents, according to this analysis. Current events have affected written decisions in the past, and the court has likely noticed that three states enacted marriage-equality laws in a 10-day span in May alone.
The Boston Globe (tiered subscription model)/The Associated Press (5/28)
Via Tricycle Daily Dharma:
Tricycle Daily Dharma May 28, 2013
Supreme Optimism
Buddhism
is a path of supreme optimism, for one of its basic tenets is that no
human life or experience is to be wasted or forgotten, but all should be
transformed into a source of wisdom and compassionate living.
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- Taitetsu Unno, "Number One Fool"
Monday, May 27, 2013
Via JMG: BRAZIL: 100,000 Evangelicals Rally Against Same-Sex Marriage In Rio
An estimated 100,000 evangelicals staged an anti-gay march in Rio de Janeiro yesterday in protest of the recent ruling that effectively legalized same-sex marriage nationwide. Via On Top Magazine:
According to the AFP, the demonstrators ended their march at the Cinelandia square, where pastors spoke out against such unions and the faithful prayed. Gospel singers such as Marcelo Aguiar and Bruna Karla and the rap group Ao Cubo were among those who performed at the annual March for Jesus (Marcha para Jesus). Several elected officials appeared at the event, including Mayor Eduardo Paes. “We say no to sin, no to corruption, no to homosexuality,” a participant was quoted as saying. “We say yes to Jesus.” The ruling, handed down earlier this month by the National Council of Justice, says notary publics cannot deny a gay couple's request for a marriage license.
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Via JMG: Robbie Rogers Takes Soccer Field As First Out Male Professional Sports Player
Via the Advocate:
Robbie Rogers made history on Sunday as the first openly gay man to play in a game in U.S. professional sports. If there was any concern about whether fans would be supportive, it was eased as the crowd stood and cheered wildly when Rogers took the field during the second half of the L.A. Galaxy's 4-0 win over the Seattle Sounders. This might forever become a tricky piece of sports trivia. The NFL's Jason Collins is the first male pro athlete to come out while still an active player, but Collins' season was already over.The New York Times has more:
The crowd was typical — close to capacity, but still with room to seat several thousand more. The news media turnout was nearly normal — no local columnists and scant national presence. Only the presence of the celebrity and gossip Web site OMG appeared out of place at a soccer match. There were no discernible signs of support (or dissent) for Rogers until he stepped on the field. To some, an M.L.S. public service announcement that flashed along the stadium signage boards may have carried more resonance on this night: “Unity. Equality. Acceptance. Respect for Fair Play. Don’t Cross the Line.” “We were talking about it earlier: this is a historic night, kind of like Jackie Robinson,” Vince Grant, a Galaxy fan, said as he enjoyed a pregame beer and meal with his uncle Mike Callahan and a friend, Aaron Rice. But for a number of Galaxy fans, there seems to be less concern with the historical implications than how the acquisition of Rogers cost Los Angeles its leading scorer, Mike Magee.VIDEO: Rogers takes the field about one minute in. The clip ends with a post-game interview.
Labels: coming out, gay athletes, Jason Collins, LGBT History, Los Angeles, Robbie Rogers, soccer, sports
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Tricycle Daily Dharma May 27, 2013
In the World
Meditation
is not just a rest or retreat from the turmoil of the stream or the
impurity of the world. It is a way of being the stream, so that one can
be at home in both the white water and the eddies. Meditation may take
one out of the world, but it also puts one totally into it.
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- Gary Snyder, "Just One Breath"
Sunday, May 26, 2013
Via Thich Nhat Hanh Gems / FB:
Imagine a boat crossing the ocean, a boat of refugees, and the boat is caught in a storm and everyone panics. You know that if everyone panics they will do the wrong things and the
boat will turn over. If there is one person who is calm, who can inspire
calm, and with his tranquility say, “Dear friends, stay where you are
quietly,” that person doesn’t do anything. He just sits very calmly and
his calmness inspires confidence and everyone follows, and he can save
the whole boatload. That is not action; that is non-action. That is being. That is the ground of all good actions.
~Thich Nhat Hanh
~Thich Nhat Hanh
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