A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Monday, June 22, 2009
Gracias! Merci! Obrigado! Thanks!
320 hits +/- since June 1!
Seychelles is now in first place (19 hits) and inched ahead of Canada (18), with with the Netherlands and New Zealand tied, and Brasil is inching (centemetering?) ahead to tie with the Aussies! The USA is @ 280 and 2/3 have to be me... but there are red dots all over the country and on every continent.
Click the link and you can get the actual data!
Thanks folks!
265 is Disgraceful!
As of this week, an estimated 265 service members will have lost their jobs under "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" since January 20.
That's when President Obama and the new Congress came to town promising change -- change they've failed to deliver, certainly with respect to repealing "Don't Ask, Don't Tell."
Every day they wait to act, another service member is fired simply because of his or her sexual orientation.
We're marching to the White House this Saturday to call on President Obama to show leadership on "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." Even though you're not near Washington, you can join this effort by telling your friends why 265 is disgraceful -- and why we've got to end "Don't Ask, Don't Tell":
http://www.sldn.org/265IsDisgraceful
Like those who drew a line in the sand 40 years ago at the Stonewall Inn in New York City, we're standing up to demand action. It's past time for these discriminatory discharges to end.
After 16 years of this nonsensical law, it's critical that President Obama and Congress act to kill "Don't Ask, Don't Tell."
Together, marching, we have a real opportunity to deliver a powerful message to the White House, to Congress, and to the American people -- and to let our service members know they have not been forgotten.
Tell a friend now why 265 is disgraceful:
http://www.sldn.org/265IsDisgraceful
Thank you so much for your continued support.
Sincerely,
Ben Mishkin
Grassroots Organizer
Servicemembers Legal Defense Network
P.S. On Facebook? Spread the word about Saturday's event to friends who are in the Washington area:
http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=109860618827
Family Values Champion Brian Blair Arrested For Beating His Family
Yesterday, Father's Day, former pro wrestler and current Florida politician Brian Blair, who campaigned against the Day Of Silence, silenced his two children by beating and choking them.
Blair, 52, was arrested shortly after 5 a.m. after an altercation at his family's home in the Forest Hills area of Tampa, sheriff's Deputy Larry McKinnon said. Blair and his wife, Toni, have two sons, Brett and Bradley, according to his campaign Web site. Blair, a former professional wrestler who is 6 feet tall and weighs 235 pounds, pushed his older son Brett, 17, in the chest about 4 a.m., according to an arrest report. The teen tried to walk away, but Blair grabbed him and punched him in the face with a closed fist, leaving a red mark and swelling, the arrest report said. Blair then put the 17-year-old in a choke hold, causing him to have trouble breathing, according to the report. Deputies said Blair then let go of his older son and grabbed his younger son by the throat. He punched the boy, leaving a bump on his head, the arrest report said. In the report, a deputy gave the younger son's age as 12, though Blair's campaign Web site said he is 13. Both sons identified their father as the person who attacked them, deputies said.In addition to promoting the bullying of gay students, Blair endorsed Florida's ban on same-sex marriage and voted to ban recognition of gay Pride events. Blair doesn't want homos to impose their "social and sexual agenda upon the rest of us and especially, on our children." But he's clearly OK with imposing his hands around the throats of his own kids.
Labels: Brian Blair, child abuse, Day Of Silence, family values, Florida
Sunday, June 21, 2009
More re: Sacramento Pride
I have been going since I have been here, I remember when we were all afraid to go, and the “parade” lasted all of 20 minutes. Folks would meet in a park, in front of a band shell, a few speakers, drags, and go home, it felt wrong. Many of us afraid that someone would see us. Then we moved it in front of the capitol building and now it is far to big to be allowed there anymore.
Today the parade lasted well over an hour, with university bands, different groups and hundreds of people, we followed it into the festival grounds and there were thousands of folks there, with three stages and hundreds of tables/booths from travel agents to utility companies. We stopped at a bookstore on the way home, and in side I realized I still had 4 or 5 stickers (immigration rights, PFLAG, etc)... I wouldn't have taken them off anyway, anymore.
We ran into a few friends, who adored my son and he enjoyed the compliments, and was absolutely comfortable with the attention, and gracefully let people know that he was straight. Of course many of my friends were envious, that my son was there. I am grateful as well as proud.
What I find absolutely infuriating is, there we were, amongst the most kind, decent, normal, fun, sweet and diverse people imaginable, and yet for the life of me cannot understand how all 3000+ of us can be hated, scorned or feared as we are.
There were religious groups, banks and utility companies, and computer company GLBT associations there, giving out fans and stickers and literature, really wanting us to know that these corporations wanted us, respected us, and hoped we would give them their business, or in the case of the religious groups, worship with them.
Yet my religion doesn't want me, or any other GLBT in their midst, and it has aligned itself with the homophobes. I was struck by the absolute absurdity of it all.
I am more resolved than ever to fight for what is rightfully ours, no matter who, what or where we are from. Because I see the potential in my GLBT freinds, in my son and not in the Baha'i community.
'Abdu'l-Bahá said,
Be kind to all people, love humanity,
consider all mankind as your relations
and servants of the most high God.
Strive day and night
that animosity and contention may pass away
from the hearts of men,
that all religions shall become reconciled
and the nations love each other,
so that no racial, religious or political prejudice may remain
and the world of humanity behold God
as the beginning and end of all existence.
God has created all, and all return to God.
Therefore love humanity with all your heart and soul.
If you meet a poor man, assist him;
if you see the sick, heal him;
reassure the affrighted one,
render the cowardly noble and courageous,
educate the ignorant, associate with the stranger.
Emulate God.
Consider how kindly, how lovingly He deals with all,
and follow His example.
You must treat people in accordance with the divine precepts
-in other words, treat them as kindly as God treats them,
for this is the greatest attainment possible
for the world of humanity.
Saturday, June 20, 2009
I would NEVER allow my self to be cured by anything less than a 100% Long Fibered Cotton, Pre-washed and Pre-shrunk, 600 gr/m2
Overseer & Prophetess Mckinney casting out the homosexual spirit
Casting out the Homosexual spirit continued
Thanks to Steve M in NZ for this who wisely says "And they say homosexuality can't be cured... "But I would NEVER allow my self to be cured by anything less than a 100% Long Fibered Cotton, Pre-washed and Pre-shrunk, 600 gr/m2, preferably Egyptian cotton.
Bil Browning sent a message to the members of The Bilerico Project.
This week was absolutely full of LGBT news that reminds you of the war in Iraq. From the shock of Indiana Equality opposing ENDA and calling it "segregation" to the awe of Obama's domestic partnership memo, it seemed like we were being led into something shady by our leaders, eh? Here's the best posts from this week:
Anyone satisfied with half a loaf?
Filed by: Alex Blaze
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/anyone_satisfied_with_half_a_loaf.php
Indiana Equality opposes ENDA: Calls it "segregation"
Filed by: Bil Browning
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/indiana_equality_opposes_enda_calls_it_s.php
Friday
Another Brutal Murder
Filed by: Tobi Hill-Meyer
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/another_brutal_murder.php
Passing (Or Not) at the Pool
Filed by: Paige Schilt
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/passing_or_not_at_the_pool.php
Hate Violence Report Sites the Changing Face of Crime
Filed by: Keri Renault (B-DC)
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://dc.bilerico.com/2009/06/ncavp_hate_violence_report_sites_the_cha.php
Thursday
And We Are Not Saved: The Opposition To ENDA From The Left Is Mistaken
Filed by: Dr. Jillian T. Weiss
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/and_we_are_not_saved.php
AMERICAblog, interrupted
Filed by: Alex Blaze
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/americablog_interrupted.php
Wednesday
Tyler is 'Divorcing' the 'Abusive' Democratic Party
Filed by: Karen Ocamb
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/tyler_is_divorcing_the_abusive_democrati.php
Speaking Washington's Language: Money and Media
Filed by: Waymon Hudson
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/speaking_washingtons_language_money_and.php
Tuesday
He's Not Your Daddy, or: Obama and the Personal Politics of Gay Marriage
Filed by: Yasmin Nair
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/hes_not_your_daddy.php
Recap: DC marriage equality twists and turns
Filed by: Michael Crawford
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/recap_dc_marriage_equality_twists_and_tu.php
Monday
Cleve Jones Responds: 10 Reasons Why a March Isn't a Bad Idea
Filed by: Guest Blogger Cleve Jones
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/cleve_jones_responds_10_reasons_why_a_ma.php
Gay dad gets a good ruling from the Georgia Supreme Court
Filed by: Nancy Polikoff
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/gay_dad_gets_a_good_ruling_from_the_geor.php
Transgender Comics: Closetspace
Filed by: Austin Crowder (B-IN)
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://indiana.bilerico.com/2009/06/transgender_comics_closetspace.php
Sunday
Was Jesus Gay? The Detective Story Continues
Filed by: Patricia Nell Warren
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/was_jesus_gay_the_detective_story.php
GLBT Peeps, If You Want Your Rights, Fly This Flag
Filed by: Monica Roberts
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.bilerico.com/2009/06/glbt_peeps_if_you_want_your_rights_fly_t.php
End This Sneaky Way To Rig Elections
Filed by: Nadine Smith (B-FL)
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://florida.bilerico.com/2009/06/end_this_sneaky_way_to_rig_elections.php
A Grand day out - At the Sacramento Pride Festival
My son Spencer is the greatest, M is in Brasil and so he joined me at the 2009 Sacramento Pride Festival. It is amazing, 20 years ago I remember being nervous bout attending a tiny little get to gether inthe park. We aren't 3.5 million, but by golly we were a couple of thousand! Viva!
The shots here are of the parade before we went into the Festival grounds... enjoy!
Friday, June 19, 2009
Quote of the Day
Both these sentiments are echoed in our own times by Bahá’u'lláh:
O Children of Men! Know ye not why We created you all from the same dust? That no one should exalt himself over the other. Ponder at all times in your hearts how ye were created. Since We have created you all from one same substance it is incumbent on you to be even as one soul, to walk with the same feet, eat with the same mouth and dwell in the same land, that from your inmost being, by your deeds and actions, the signs of oneness and the essence of detachment may be made manifest. Such is My counsel to you, O concourse of light! Heed ye this counsel that ye may obtain the fruit of holiness from the tree of wondrous glory.
(The Hidden Words of Bahá’u’lláh, Arabic No. 68)
and
O SON OF SPIRIT! The best beloved of all things in My sight is Justice; turn not away therefrom if thou desirest Me, and neglect it not that I may confide in thee. By its aid thou shalt see with thine own eyes and not through the eyes of others, and shalt know of thine own knowledge and not through the knowledge of thy neighbour. Ponder this in thy heart; how it behooveth thee to be. Verily justice is My gift to thee and the sign of My loving-kindness. Set it then before thine eyes.
(Ibid: Arabic No. 2)
If only most of us could live according to those two principles the world would be transformed. How many times must they be repeated before we get the point?
Thank you Everybody Means Somebody!
SF City Attorney Files Amicus Brief On Behalf Of Federal Marriage Suit
San Francisco City Attorney Dennis Herrera has filed the first amicus brief in support of Ted Olson and David Boies' federal marriage suit.
"The constitutional challenge to Proposition 8 in federal court persuasively argues that the measure's only conceivable purpose was to withhold honor and respect from the relationships of same-sex couples, and to do so to them alone," Herrera said. "This kind of discrimination against lesbians and gay men as a class has been remedied before in our federal jurisprudence -- in Romer v. Evans, in Lawrence v. Texas, and in other cases. The plaintiffs here make a compelling case for the federal courts to ensure that justice is done in California, and I am pleased to offer San Francisco's expertise to support their efforts." Herrera's brief additionally supports the plaintiffs' motion for a preliminary injunction, which if granted would immediately require local governments in California to resume issuing civil marriage licenses to same-sex couples.Two days ago California Attorney General Jerry Brown said that Prop 8 be kept legal until the federal suit is resolved.
DOJ To Meet With GLAD, Lambda Legal, Others Over DOMA Challenges
Courtesy of JMG for this:
More reaction from the Obama administration. The DOJ has agreed to meet next week with Lambda Legal, Gay & Lesbian Advocates and Defenders (GLAD) and other LGBT orgs to "hash out how to proceed with pending DOMA cases." Via Greg Sargent:
Keep up the pressure, it's working.The Obama Justice Department has reached out to major gay rights organizations and scheduled a private meeting for next week with the groups, in an apparent effort to smooth over tensions in the wake of the controversy over the administration’s defense in court of the Defense of Marriage Act. Tracy Russo, a spokesperson for Justice, confirmed the meeting to me, after I posted below that top gay rights lawyers were miffed that administration lawyers had rebuffed their requests to meet and discuss ongoing litigation involving DOMA. At the meeting — which hasn’t been announced and is expected to include leading gay rights groups like GLAD and Lambda Legal — both sides are expected to hash out how to proceed with pending DOMA cases.
Labels: DOJ, DOMA, GLAD, Lambda Legal, LGBT righs, marriage equality, Obama administration