Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Via AmericaBlog: Barilla pasta kinda-sorta finally gets that bigotoni is bad for business

Barilla pasta got into some hot water six weeks ago after AMERICAblog exclusively broke the news that the Italian giant’s chairman, Guido Barilla, told an Italian radio show that the company would never put gay people in its advertising.

Barilla added that if gays didn’t like it, they could buy someone else’s pasta.

So they did.

What happened next was a textbook case of Gay David vs. Corporate Goliath in the Internet age, with Barilla issuing no fewer than four apologies in a failed attempt to quell the growing consumer and media meltdown of its once-famed “family” brand.

Fast forward to today, and there are signs that Barilla got the message.  (Albeit, six weeks late.)  It still remains unclear, however, if change is on the horizon, and whether Barilla will be taking “bigotoni” off the menu for good.

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Barilla says it’s reached out to gay representatives in the US and Italy, though we have no details about any of that outreach, other than the fact that gay political icon David Mixner is involved, which is always good.  But beyond that, who knows. Barilla certainly never reached out to us, and we broke the story.

It will be interesting to see if Barilla follows the usual corporate path of parlaying with the large gay groups who have become increasingly irrelevant to the online direction that civil rights, and all progressive activism, has gone in the past twenty years.  They always try to broker a deal with the people who didn’t get them in trouble, thinking that somehow this will appease the people who did get them in trouble.  And it rarely works.

Specifically, Barilla has created an “advisory board to promote diversity.” As Kathleen Sebelius would say….

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I want to know if the company has a comprehensive LGBT anti-discrimination policy, for starters, and how many openly gay people it has in any kind of senior position anywhere in the company.

Next, they promise a new advertising campaign that’s more inclusive.  Hmm.  That’s really the cruz of the problem, that Barilla said they wouldn’t include gays in their ads.  Let’s see some gays in their ads, and let’s see the advertising budget, where the ads run, how often they run, whether any actually run in gay media (and straight media), not to mention on the gay blogs. (And absolutely Barilla should run ads in the straight media, but they should also show support for the gay media here and at home as well.)

Make those changes, then we’ll talk.

Via Tricycle Daily Dharma:

Tricycle Daily Dharma November 5, 2013

Engaging Others' Views

Listen without arguing, and try to hear what the other is really saying, remembering that, as Buddha pointed out, all beings wish to be happy and avoid suffering. A Buddhist practices nonattachment to views. If we human beings are going to stick around on this earth, we need to learn to get along not just with the people who share our views, but also, and more to the point, with the people who get our goat. And remember—we get their goat, too.
- Susan Moon, "Ten Practices to Change the World"
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Monday, November 4, 2013

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Tricycle Daily Dharma November 4, 2013

Drunk on Dhamma

Being drunk on the dhamma is no different from being drunk on alcohol. They’re really similar. Don’t go there. You have to look carefully, again and again, for sometimes something is dhamma, but it’s drunk. That’s not right.
- Venerable Ajahn Chah, "Drunk on Dhamma"
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Sunday, November 3, 2013

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Tricycle Daily Dharma November 3, 2013

Giving Rise to Forgiveness

Our suffering was not caused by our parents or grandparents. It was merely passed down. We are social animals. We grow through modeling. We teach what we have learned. We act as we have been acted upon. A person who is not loving has not experienced love. It is not his fault. Realizing this gives rise to forgiveness. And in Chan we vow that suffering will stop with us. We will not pass it down.
- Guo Jun, "A Special Transmission"
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Saturday, November 2, 2013

Thich Nhat Hanh Living Mindfully


Talks at Google: Eckhart Tolle in Conversation with Bradley Horowitz


Eckhart Tolle - Don't take your thoughts too seriously


Eckhart Tolle: Asilomar Part 4 - Facing Challenges


1324 Hits: What I want to be when I grow up: Daniel Orey at TEDxSacramento



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Tricycle Daily Dharma November 2, 2013

Developing a Skillful Attitude

Skillful attitudes of mind are the key to facing potentially explosive situations and the ongoing highs and lows of life and practice. In fact, recognizing these attitudes and cultivating their antidotes is the foundation for all spiritual growth. By cultivating skillful attitudes of mind, we will respond to more and more of life with awareness and wisdom.
- Steve Armstrong, “Got Attitude?”
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Friday, November 1, 2013

Religion and Gay Marriage


Grandparents For Marriage Equality


Via JMG: Moscow Bans Tribute To Gay Holocaust Victims: It Would Promote Homosexuality


The Moscow government has banned a tribute to the gay victims of the Holocaust became it would give children the wrong idea about homosexuality. Via Gay Star News:
Around 20 participants applied to hold a peaceful event in Kudrinskaya Square in Moscow on 5 November. The intention of the tribute was to also spread the message about not repeating past mistakes and ensuring something like the Holocaust never happens again. But the authorities rejected the application, saying paying tribute to gay victims of Nazi Germany could potentially "influence" children on homosexuality. Nikolai Alekseev, founder of Moscow Pride, said: "The Moscow authorities are becoming increasingly absurd, and the banning of the rally to denounce the crimes of Hitler and Nazism is more proof of this. The government is approving of Nazi Germany’s genocidal policies."
Scott Lively is likely thrilled.
 
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A Life changing video from ekhart tolle at Asilomar


Eckhart Tolle: Film Can Awaken Consciousness and A New Earth


Via GetEQUAL:


Via OUT: Ian McKellen Gets Vicious on PBS

 Ian McKellen Gets Vicious on PBS

10.31.2013

By Matthew Breen

The out thespian stars as half of a bickering same-sex couple in a show coming Stateside, 'Downton Abbey'-style 
 
The six-episode series Vicious from Britain’s ITV that stars veteran British thesps Ian McKellen and Derek Jacobi is coming to the United States in a deal with PBS, which will give the broadcaster rights to air the series in 2014.

The series from Will & Grace executive producer Gary Janetti, features McKellen and Jacobi as “a constantly bickering couple who’ve lived together in a small Covent Garden flat for nearly 50 years. 

But underneath all their vicious co-dependent fighting, they deeply love each other,” according to Deadline Hollywood.

Frances de la Tour (the Harry Potter movies) and Iwan Rheon (Game of Thrones) also appear in the series.


Vicious has a green light for a second season in the U.K., and as these things go these days, an American version is also being considered. Sometimes it works (see: The Office) and sometimes it sucks (see: Coupling, Football Wives, Red Dwarf, Skins, I'm a Celebrity Get Me Out of Here).

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Via Gray Queers / FB: THE FACE OF GAY YESTERDAY!!

THE FACE OF GAY YESTERDAY!!

On February 12, 2004, San Francisco authorities challenged
California's marriage law by issuing a license and performing
a wedding ceremony for Phyllis Lyon, 79, and Del Martin, 83.
Marriages performed at that time were declared invalid, but
after a California Supreme Court decision for marriage equality,
Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin were married in a ceremony on
June 16, 2008.Known as a lesbian activist, Phyllis Lyon and
Del Martin formed the first national lesbian organization
in the United States, Daughters of Bilitis, in 1955.