A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Tuesday, November 10, 2020
Via Daily Dharma: Develop a Balance
Just
as meditation requires ... determination to carry it out, likewise it
requires a sense of balance to determine when to push ourselves harder
and when to step back and relax where we are.
—Lama Dudjom Dorjee, “Heartfelt Advice”
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Monday, November 9, 2020
Via Daily Dharma: Recognizing Our Dependence
There is no self-grounding inner core of the individual. Our lives are entirely dependent processes.
—William S. Cobb, “The Game of Go”
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Sunday, November 8, 2020
Via Tricycle // The Third Harmony
Directed by Michael Nagler
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Via Daily Dharma: Guard Your Mind’s Door
Mindfulness
is said to protect the mind from the intrusion of unwanted
elements—whether they be from the senses or from thoughts—like a guard
at the door.
—Robert E. Buswell, Jr. and Donald S. Lopez Jr., “Which Mindfulness?”
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Mushim Patricia Ikeda Responds to the 2020 U.S. Presidential Election
Today, November 6, 2020, the United States, my home, is a nation divided against itself, with all sides striving to win. This is the karma of white supremacy and colonization manifesting in the midst of a global pandemic and climate crisis. I live in California, a state that is, literally, on fire.
The Buddha said this:
Winning gives birth to hostility.
Losing, one lies down in pain.
The calmed lie down with ease,
having set
winning & losing
aside.
“Winning gives birth to hostility.” Another translator more colloquially put it this way: “The winner sows hatred because the loser suffers.”
I believe in strategic political action and liberatory movement-building. I have cast my vote. And these are my Bodhisattva vows as I move with you into the coming months and years: What actions can I take to lessen hostility and extreme reactivity, and to encourage civil discourse and respectful democratic process?
May we all complete the great journey of awakening together.
Via Ram Dass - Love Serve Remember Foundation // Words of Wisdom - November 8, 2020 💌
You took birth here because you had certain work to do. This is your curriculum. It's not an error. Where you are now with all your neuroses and your problems, you're sitting in just the right place.
- Ram Dass -
Via Mushim Patricia Ikeda EBMC Sangha
Saturday, November 7, 2020
Via Tricycle // Buddhism for Beginners: The Many Buddhist Traditions
Buddhism for Beginners: The Many Buddhist Traditions
Via Daily Dharma: Transforming Through Spiritual Practice
Through
spiritual practice, you can come to see yourself and your life clearly.
And when you can see clearly, you can transform any situation.
—Interview with Tina Turner by Clark Strand, “Absolutely, Indestructibly Happy”
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7º Festival Cinema e Transcendência: 7 a 27 de novembro
7º Festival Cinema e Transcendência: 7 a 27 de novembro Venha participar do único festival no Brasil que se dedica à experiência de transformação pessoal a partir do cinema. Nesta edição a programação será 100% on-line, apresentando 12 longas-metragens que tocam nosso mundo interior em sessões diárias (terça a domingo), às 21h. O festival ainda apresentará as atividades extras: bate-papo online com o neurocientista Sidarta Ribeiro (12/11, 20h) e com a Monja Coen (14/11, 20h); uma prática de meditação sonora, a Medittasom (15/11, 18h30); e o show Expresso do Oriente, com sitar e alaúde turco, transmitido diretamente do teatro do CCBB Brasília, ao vivo, na abertura do Festival (7/11, 20h). Haverá ainda uma homenagem ao Dia da Consciência Negra, no final de semana de 20 a 22/11, com filmes e debates. Acesse toda a programação gratuitamente festivalcinemaetranscendencia.
Friday, November 6, 2020
Via Daily Dharma: The Foundation of Generosity
Gratitude, the simple and profound feeling of being thankful, is the foundation of all generosity.
—Sallie Tisdale, “As If There Is Nothing to Lose”
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Via FB // Frodo & Sam
Found this in someone´s comments today:
Via Spotlight on David Hinton | Author of China Root from Shambhala Publications
Experience the Wild Beauty of Hunger Mountain
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Thursday, November 5, 2020
Today's Gay Wisdom via White Crane Institute: 2017 - Equinox/Return
An excerpt from Mark Thompson’s Gay Spirit: Myth & Meaning
What Edward Carpenter, Gerald Heard and Harry Hay recognized was the “new city of Friends” described by Walt Whitman over a hundred years ago—a sustaining place where “robust love” might thrive, a deep source of empowerment. It has been a dream asserted by a few and glimpsed by others at crucial points in our development. The early 1950s and 1970s were times when our movement howled at the moon, briefly acknowledging that this dream could be a reality. That this rude awakening represented something instinctual, wildly alive, posed problems for our leaders. Here was nature, woolly and cloven-hoofed, taking on unexpected form. Here were luminous faces peering out on the edges of accepted reality. How strangely familiar, too, for others to suppress what they do not comprehend, to fear what they’ve been taught to distrust.
Power, status, the hierarchy of who’s on top is the real currency of American culture, and so many of our leaders have been seduced by it all. These are the tactics of assimilation and they smell of panic. Thinking we have gained so much, we have been led to settle for less than we can be.
There is a tyranny implicit in any label, and certainly the label of Gay has now been revealed as much for its limitations as for its liberations. Why not consider difference, whatever its reason, in terms of function? The concept of a faerie shaman is just one idea that indicates a purposeful role, beyond that of just political or sexual identity. In times past and in many cultures, we often assumed the tasks of the shamans—wise and creative ones—and were duly honored as such. If we can but take gay beyond society’s definition—which we have internalized—and see ourselves as part of this function, our secret will be out.
I failed in my father’s eyes, and he in mind, as, I suppose, it had been fated. More to the point, few gay men ever seem to find complete acceptance from their fathers. (And even tolerance, however honorable, cannot account for true knowing.) Gay men have even less hope of being accepted by the greater father, the world of our daily existence, which, despite tolerant inroads, remains disapproving to its core. But neither can an opposite reality—that is, the matriarchy—hold any more honest place for us. Perhaps at one time, and according to the current feminist myth, the dominant Great Mother societies of agrarian, pre-Judeo-Christian times accepted gay men as welcomed sons. But I suspect, more likely, as subservient sons, in contrast to the outlawed sons of our contemporary age.
So gay men remain suspended in a horrible dilemma. Both the matriarchy and the patriarchy have, in effect, played themselves out; and the future, symbolized through an historic union of the two—has yet to fully emerge. Gay male consciousness remains stymied, unable to come of age. This is why so much of recent gay-identified culture appears to lack deeper meaning; however fresh and guileless its messages, empowered as it is by ritual dance and sex and defiance against corrupt authority.
At what point do gay boys stop finding favor in their father’s eyes? What stories are withheld, what rites of manhood lost in that uncomprehending gaze? Now, as gay men, we must begin by finding forgiveness in each other’s eyes, seek favor in stories of our own telling — our own fairy tales, the instructional fables we need to assume a mature and ever evolving gay adulthood. And for this we need to reinvest in wonder.
By learning more fully to evoke and to balance the powers of (what were once known as) the Earth Mother and Father Sky, we can set into motion our own whiling evolution as gay men beyond definition. We will no longer suffer from the constraints of living on a fraction of a life. We will evidence harmony as men who see clearly within and thus act cleanly without. We can learn to revel in our perspective, as much as our preference, and we don’t need a name. Our freedom is our responsibility. We simply need to do our work.
But first we must take the dark fantasies of our suppressed spirits out of their closets into the powerful light of reality. We can have a vision, and, thus, a culture to affirm, until one day perhaps our fathers will knowingly proclaim: “I have one of those.”
Gay Spirit: Myth & Meaning is now available at www.gaywisdom.org www.whitecranebooks.org