Sunday, August 23, 2026

Via Daily Dharma: Let Go of Pain

Let Go of Pain
The Buddhist teachings say that when we can actually feel pain directly, we spontaneously let go, just as feeling the hot handle of a cast-iron skillet makes us let go.

Judith Simmer-Brown, “Transforming the Green-Ey’d Monster”

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Via FB \\ Bil Browning


In August 1965, three people walked into the water at San Francisco’s Aquatic Park, took off their clothes, and turned a day at the beach into a civil liberties fight.
Police arrested all three.
Jefferson Poland, Ina Saslow, and Shirley Einsiedel were activists with San Francisco’s burgeoning sexual freedom movement. Their “nude wade-in” sounds almost quaint now, but their target was much bigger than whether somebody could skinny-dip in public.
They were attacking the government’s power to police sex, bodies, and private life.
The League for Sexual Freedom had emerged from a loose network of radicals who were unusually willing to connect causes that other organizations often kept separate. They opposed censorship and anti-nudity laws. They wanted abortion restrictions repealed and prostitution decriminalized. They challenged police harassment of homosexuals and laws criminalizing consensual sex.
In 1964, the lesbian magazine "The Ladder" reported that the San Francisco League considered sexual freedom “a fundamental civil liberty” and wanted California laws against what the state called sexual “perversions” repealed.
That was not cautious language in 1964.
This was a period when consensual sex between men could still get you arrested in California. Police routinely raided gay bars, entrapped gay men, and treated queer sexuality as probable cause. The government did not merely disapprove of queer sex. It had laws, cops, courts, and surveillance practices devoted to controlling it.
So the League made the body itself part of the protest.
Poland had already been pushing public nudity as civil disobedience. At Aquatic Park, he, Saslow, and Einsiedel stripped down and waded into San Francisco Bay. Police hauled them away. Saslow and Einsiedel received suspended sentences. Poland got five weekends in jail.
If the government claims authority over your body, put your body at the center of the argument.
The League was messy, radical, sexually libertarian, and sometimes deliberately provocative. It also pushed ideas that would become central to later queer politics: consensual sex should not make you a criminal. Homosexuality should not justify police harassment. The government should have limits on how deeply it can pry into your bedroom.
These activists weren’t asking to be respectable enough to escape punishment.
They were asking why consensual sexuality was the government’s business in the first place.

Friday, August 21, 2026

Thursday, August 20, 2026

Via Daily Dharma: Find Your Own Way

 

Find Your Own Way
What makes sense to some may not to others, but it may be what is most valuable for us as practitioners. You have to find your own way.

Robert E. Buswell, Jr., “The Monk Who Walked Away”


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Wednesday, August 19, 2026

Via Ram Dass - Love Serve Remember Foundation \\ Words of Wisdom - August 19, 2026 🌻

 


"A family can be a strangling type of thing that catches you or it can be a vehicle for your freedom. The way you use the family to become free is to become a Dharmic parent or a Dharmic child. You hear the role and you fulfill it impeccably."
 
- Ram Dass

Source: Ram Dass – Here and Now – Ep. 149 – One Family, Many Paths

Via White Crane Institute \\\ From issue #48 of White Crane, The Shadow Archetype of the Double

 

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This Day in Gay History

August 19


Today's Gay Wisdom
2017 -

TODAY'S GAY WISDOM

From issue #48 of White Crane, The Shadow

Archetype of the Double

By Mark Thompson

Queer eros holds multiple purposes in our lives — pedagogic, religious, creative, even altruistic — beyond the near-meaningless context it’s been assigned. No matter how it’s dealt with, being Gay must certainly encompass more than whom we choose to have sex with. We’re not different because of what we do in bed. The difference comes from what’s happening under our skins, not the sheets. A psyche-based paradigm of Gay nature puts homosexuality in a new light. To be Gay, as currently defined, gives us a limited place to stand in the world and a lever with which to somewhat move it. But an understanding of our lives stemming from psychological mindfulness permits a much better view of society’s queer men as potential healers, soul guides, and culture makers for all people.

There is a wealth of archetypal forces residing within us; as many, one might say, as there are gods in the heavens. Some archetypes can be literally imagined, such as the Questing Hero or the Wise Old Man. (In Western culture, major archetypes are seen in the personae of ancient deities, on tarot cards, or in the image of certain pop icons.) But others are representational of more abstract images and ideas, like Self or Individuation, which are known as archetypes of transformation.

Some archetypes are widely experienced in Western culture (the Senex, or Judging Father, is one). But other archetypes are more acutely felt, for reasons of biological or social inheritance, within individual minds. Archetypes of the Same or Double, the Wounded Healer, Divine Chi ld, Lunar Phallos, and Trickster are especially ascendant and at work in the psyches of Gay men today. I believe the fundamental basis of being queer is an archetypal matrix, or inner constellation, characteristic of those who have been so labeled. This biologically determined psychic structure is further organized according to the vicissitudes of one’s personal and collective upbringing.

Because these archetypes contain energetic forces vital to challenge and change — necessary to the discovery of new ideas and modes of being, but revolutionary in that they upset the established order — individuals acting out the contents of these archetypes are shunned and suppressed. Recognizing this helps us to see how certain capacities of the soul could be assigned as “Gay” throughout time; their value, adaptation, and even survival contingent on the specific cultural milieu in which they’re perceived. Seen from this vantage, being Gay is more about what we do — our social role and function—than about what and how we’ve been sexually labeled. It is a subjective, multidimensional view of same-sex love, not a further justification. After al l the damage that’s been done, what recourse do we have but sublimity?

In way s both covert and blatant, a large percentage of us are soul-wounded early in life. We know this hurt better than any lover. And so we wonder: Are we damaged due to too much love from one parent and not enough from the other? Despite the rhetoric of Gay pride, may be there really is something “abnormal” about being homosexual. Then again, perhaps there’s nothing wrong at all except for society’s prejudice. Whatever the reason for rejection, is our wounding a curse or a spiritual occasion? Maybe it’s an opportunity to take the road less traveled. Because a false self and its sensibility of shame has been implanted in our souls, not many have been able to see clear enough to answer these questions. That is why striving to create an autonomous awareness is crucial. As someone who assiduously tended to the wounds of his own soul, some of Jung’s insights about same-sex love hold value for us today. For it was he who finally grasped the one truth essential to any Gay person: Our homosexuality has a meaning peculiar to us, and us alone. Taking the downward tumble into our own depths demands that we become conscious of that meaning.

Archetype of the Sames

The archetype of queer love itself is the Double. What inquisitive Gay boys seek is an unfailing mirror in which to see themselves. But what sensitive Gay men desire is the ideal companion with whom they may share that reflection. So we search for someone just like us, a twin or double self. As an archetype of sames, the Double is the source of democracy, justice, and equality in the world, transcending boundaries of age, class, and nationality. This is what Walt Whitman implied when he talked about “adhesive” love, one celebrating “the need of comrades.”

The Double is one of the most important and ascendant elements within a Gay male psyche. We feel its presence erotically, and project it — in ways both direct and subliminal — on the men we encounter and the work we do in the  world.

It is the wellspring of our creativity and endurance; it is the very root, in fact, of our modern Gay identity. Men who do not regard themselves as homosexual experience this archetype, too. For them the Double is not as prominently situated in the anatomy of the soul, or else its libidinal charge has been devalued and contained in hollow ritual, or even made taboo. For these reasons, the Double is one of the most thwarted archetypes in modern Western society, having been perverted from the enabling of loving comradeship to purposes of competition, envy , and war.

Mark Thompson was author of many books that have influenced the Gay cultural wisdom movement. Among these are Gay Body: A Journey through Shadow to Self, from which this is excerpted and Gay Spirit: Myth & Meaning (White Crane Books). He was a regular contributor to White Crane and served on the White Crane Board. He is deeply missed.


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Via Daily Dharma: No One Owns You

No One Owns You
Nothing and no one owns you. No one is watching; no one is keeping score. Let go of whatever has its grip on you: concerns, hopes, fears.

Charlotte Rotterdam, “Realizing Rootlessness”

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