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Wednesday, July 12, 2023
Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Speech: Refraining from False Speech
False speech is unhealthy.
Refraining from false speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning false speech,
one dwells refraining from false speech, a truth-speaker, one to be
relied on, trustworthy, dependable, not a deceiver of the world. One
does not in full awareness speak falsehood for one’s own ends or
another’s ends, or for some trifling worldly end. (DN 1) One practices
thus: “Others may speak falsely, but I shall abstain from false speech.”
(MN 8)
When one knows covert speech to be true, correct, and beneficial, one may utter it, knowing the time to do so. (MN 139)
Reflection
There is
nothing wrong with speaking privately and even secretly to someone as
long as what is said is true and beneficial. There are times when
discretion is entirely appropriate. The thing to guard against is
resorting to covert speech as a way of hiding something that is not
worthy of being spoken in the open. A good rule of thumb is to refrain
from saying anything in private you would be ashamed of saying publicly.
Daily Practice
The restraint
of false speech is important because what you say has an effect not only
on other people but also on yourself. Pay attention to the quality of
your mind when you speak covertly to someone and check to make sure that
you are not drifting into states of mind that are harmful, such as ill
will, hatred, or cruelty. You can learn to be intuitively aware of the
quality of your emotions as you speak.
Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Bodily Action One week from today: Refraining from Malicious Speech
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