vIA Budistas Gays: Uma opinião sobre a homosexualidade

O Precioso Senhor da Dança, S.Ema. Chagdud Tulku Rinpoche, partilha sua opinião sobre a homosexualidade. Essa história foi retirada do facebook de um aluno que presenciou esse fato.
Uma senhora, após a palestra do lama sobre a diversidade da vida, perguntou:

- Mestre, o que é um homossexual?
Ele: – Um homossexual é uma pessoa que faz sexo com o mesmo sexo.
Ela: – Acho que o senhor não entendeu… Como o budismo vê o homossexualismo?
Ele: – Nós não vemos o homossexualismo. No budismo, não temos o costume de ver as pessoas fazendo sexo.
Ela [impaciente]: – Mestre, o que eu quero saber é a opinião do budismo sobre pessoas que fazem sexo com o mesmo sexo.
Ele: – Alguém pode dar opinião sobre quem não conhece? Você está falando em “pessoas”. Que pessoas?
Ela [quase louca]: – Qualquer uma! Qualquer uma!
Ele: – Todas as pessoas são milagres.
Ela [começando a espumar]: – O HOMOSSEXUALISMO É CERTO OU ERRADO?
Ele: – Atos homossexuais consensuais são atos de amor.
Tudo isso com a mesma expressão de quem vê um passarinho azul. Seguem-se aplausos e gargalhadas. Rinpoche sorri.

Mais histórias do Senhor da Dança

Este blog é fantásticos e conta muitas histórias sobre S.Ema. Chagdud Tulku Rinpoche, um mestre tibetano autêntico e reconhecido da linhagem Niygma.

Acesse: O senhor da Dança.

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Suffering Ends, Wisdom Begins | April 23, 2014

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When it’s time to suffer, you should suffer; when it’s time to cry, you should cry. Cry completely. Cry until there are no more tears and then recognize in your exhaustion that you’re alive. The sun still rises and sets. The seasons come and go. Absolutely nothing remains the same and that includes suffering. When the suffering ends wisdom begins to raise the right questions. 

 

—Seido Ray Ronci, “The Examined Life”

 

Links - Via Dan Nicoletta / FB:

Dan said, "I am really excited about the upcoming Milk stamp but sickened that news agencies are saying he is the first openly gay person elected to office as ABC7 just did. It matters because women matter.  Kathy Kozachenko — first openly gay or lesbian candidate to win public office in the United States (won a seat on the Ann Arbor, Michigan, city council). Elaine Noble became the first openly gay or lesbian candidate ever elected to a state-level office in America when she was elected to the Massachusetts House of Representatives."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_Rights_Party_%28United_States%29
One of the 1972 HRP winners, Nancy Wechsler <http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Nancy_Wechsler&action=edit&redlink=1> , came out <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Come_out> as a lesbian <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesbian> during her term on city council, thus becoming the first openly lesbian public-office holder in the United States <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States> . When Wechsler declined to run for reelection in 1974, her seat was won by HRP candidate Kathy Kozachenko <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kathy_Kozachenko> , who became the country's first openly gay <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay> or lesbian candidate to win public office.[6] <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_Rights_Party_%28United_States%29#cite_note-5>
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allan_Spear
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kathy_Kozachenko
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elaine_Noble

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Complete Transformation | April 22, 2014

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If spirituality is only about self-transcendence—about seeing through the story of ‘me’ that we habitually inhabit—then it runs the risk of cutting us loose from that story so that we no longer take care of the human wounds of self and other. No matter how imaginary the self proves to be, we return to its world. If spiritual or transcendent insight doesn’t lead to healing and transformation in our actual daily lives, it is clearly incomplete. 

 

—Henry Shukman, “Light and Dark”

 

Via JMG: xkcd On Brendan Eich

  (Via JMG reader Mike)

Labels: boycotts, Brendan Eich, Mozilla, xkcd

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Via JMG: USPS Begins Milk Stamp Pre-Orders

 

Via press release from the White House:

The U.S. Postal Service officially revealed the Harvey Milk Forever Stamp today. The stamp’s official first-day-of-issue ceremony will take place May 22 at the White House. The public is invited to attend the May 28 Harvey Milk Forever Stamp special dedication ceremony in San Francisco. Details on the time and location will be forthcoming. Customers may order the Harvey Milk stamp now for delivery following the May 22 stamp issuance. The stamp image is based on a circa 1977 black and white photograph of Milk in front of his Castro Street Camera store in San Francisco taken by Daniel Nicoletta of Grants Pass, OR. Antonio Alcalá of Alexandria, VA, was art director for the stamp.

Pre-order your stamps here.

Labels: Harvey Milk, LGBT History, USPS

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Union of Compassion and Wisdom | April 21, 2014

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The essence of Buddha’s teaching is the union of compassion and wisdom, the view of interdependence and emptiness. An altruistic attitude is altruistic. It is not confused in itself. But without wisdom, we can act with obscured compassion or stupid compassion. 

 

—Matthieu Ricard, “Karma Crossroads”

 

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Inner and Outer Nature | April 20, 2014

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When there is no ego or selfishness, there is nothing that will destroy nature, nothing that will exploit and abuse nature. Then the external, physical aspect of nature will be able to conserve itself automatically.

—Buddhadasa, “Conserving the Inner Ecology”

 

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Not Part of the Deal | April 19, 2014

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The mind must be monitored and inventoried like an alcoholic in recovery or a Washington lobbyist: It never goes away until it gets what it wants. And what it wants is to be in control at all times. But control is not part of the deal of being a human being. We may rightly try to confront injustices, but some things can only be seen, noted, and accepted for what they are. 

 

—Stephen Altschuler, “Sitting Practice Redux”

 

Via JMG: Tumblr: Judgmental Maps

 

Embiggen for better reading. More cities here.

Labels: maps, NYC, silliness, Tumblr

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Via JMG: OREGON: An Openly Gay Federal Judge Will Hear Next Week's Marriage Case

Openly gay US District Court Judge Michael J. McShane will hear next week's marriage equality case in Oregon.

Unlike the five federal judges who have struck down laws prohibiting same-sex marriages in other states in recent months, McShane won't have anyone in the courtroom defending Oregon's constitutional ban when he holds oral arguments Wednesday. And, unlike the other judges, McShane also happens to be one of just nine openly gay members of the federal judiciary, according to the Human Rights Campaign. It's an unusual combination of factors for the 53-year-old jurist, who has served as a federal judge for less than a year. McShane, citing the sensitivity of the case, declined to be interviewed for this story. But friends say they're confident he'll produce a careful decision while setting aside any personal feelings. "You don't want to be the lawyer going in saying with a wink, 'I'm the lawyer on the gay-marriage side and he's going to be with me,'" says Lane Borg, who heads Metropolitan Public Defender and has known McShane for decades. "They would be ill-advised to think that just because Michael is gay that he is going to rule that way."

NOM chairman John Eastman has the sadz: "The question is not his sexual orientation, but whether he is situated identically to the plaintiffs and will benefit from the exact relief he provides to them."

RELATED: McShane began his career as a public defender in Portland. He was nominated to the federal bench by President Obama in September 2012. (Tipped by JMG reader Sam)

Labels: lawsuits, marriage equality, Oregon

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Via JMG: Oregon Readies Gay Marriage Licenses

Oregon Attorney General Ellen Rosenblum declared in February that she will not defend the state against the marriage equality suit filed in October 2013 by local attorneys on behalf of two gay couples. That case hasn't even been heard yet, much less ruled upon, but the state is getting ready for good news. Via the Associated Press:

In light of the Oregon attorney general's decision to not defend the state's ban on gay marriage, Oregon is now revising its marriage licenses to include forms for same-sex couples. Previously, when people applied for a marriage license, they were asked either to identify as a "bride" or "groom." Now, the new form designates as "Party A" and "Party B." Applicants can also choose to be identified as "bride," "groom" or "spouse." Another change to marriage licenses: eliminating the term "maiden name." Instead, applicants will be asked to provide their "name at birth." Most of Oregon's counties use an electronic version of the marriage form. Clerks are in the process of working with a software vendor to update the online forms.

(Tipped by JMG reader Robert)

Labels: LGBT rights, marriage equality, Oregon

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Let Go in a Discerning Way | April 18, 2014

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When you let go of the body, let go in a discerning way. Don't let go in a way in which delusion and misunderstanding overcome the mind. Don't get disgusted with the body so that the mind becomes restless and agitated and stops meditating. That kind of dislike is wrong. When we look at things we don't like—such as the inconstancy, the stressfulness, and the unattractiveness of the body—remember that they're part of the noble truths. 

 

—Phra Ajaan Suwat Suvaco, "This Body of Mine"

 

Via JMG: Lawyer Who Defended Prop 8 At SCOTUS Is Changing His Mind On Gay Marriage

 

Protect Marriage attorney Charles Cooper, who last year argued against the overturn of Proposition 8 before the Supreme Court, says his opinion on gay marriage is "evolving" now that his own daughter is planning to marry a woman.

The revelation is an unexpected footnote in the years-long debate over Proposition 8, the California measure struck down by the Supreme Court last year. It is also offers a glimpse, through the eyes of one family, of the country's rapidly shifting opinions of gay marriage, with most public polls now showing majorities in favour of allowing the unions. Cooper learned that his stepdaughter Ashley was gay as the Proposition 8 case wound its way through appellate court, according to a forthcoming book about the lengthy legal battle.
And with the Supreme Court ruling now behind him, Cooper cast his personal opinion on gay marriage as an evolving process. "My views evolve on issues of this kind the same way as other people's do, and how I view this down the road may not be the way I view it now, or how I viewed it ten years ago," Cooper said in journalist Jo Becker's book "Forcing the Spring: Inside the Fight for Marriage Equality." Cooper's words are reminiscent of the language President Barack Obama used throughout his first term to describe his "evolving" views on gay marriage. In 2012, Obama announced publicly that he did, in fact, support the rights of same-sex couples to marry.

Cooper's daughter will marry in Massachusetts in June. He says, "My daughter Ashley's path in life has led her to happiness with a lovely young woman named Casey, and our family and Casey's family are looking forward to celebrating their marriage in just a few weeks."

HRC president Chad Griffin reacts: “I spent the better part of five years sitting across courtroom aisles from Mr. Cooper, disagreeing with just about every word that came out of his mouth, but I have profound respect for his decision to love and celebrate his daughter and her fiancée because his story reflects the experience of so many of the 90 percent of Americans who personally know someone who is LGBT."

Proposition 8 plaintiffs Kris Perry and Sandy Stier react: "We were so moved to hear of the Cooper family's constant love and support of their own daughter, even as the Perry case was in full swing and Mr. Cooper was spending his days planning Prop 8's defense. Some may find this contrast between public and private jarring, but in our opinion, loving an LGBT child unequivocally is the single most important thing any parent can do. We are overjoyed for Ashley and her fiancée, and we wish them the very best."

Will Brian Brown issue his usual denouncement?

Labels: Charles Cooper, LGBT History, LGBT rights, marriage equality, Proposition 8, Protect Marriage, SCOTUS

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Via JMG: Sodomy Banned But Not Necrophilia

Via Gawker.

Labels: Kansas, Louisiana, necrophilia, North Carolina, Oklahoma, religion, sodomy

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Commit to Love | April 17, 2014

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To commit to love is fundamentally to commit to a life beyond dualism. That’s why love is so sacred in a culture of domination, because it simply begins to erode your dualisms: dualisms of black and white, male and female, right and wrong.

 

—bell hooks, "Agent of Change"

 

Via JMG: LOUISIANA: House Votes 66-27 To Keep Unconstitutional Anti-Sodomy Law

Thanks to pressure from a local anti-gay Christian group, the Louisiana House yesterday refused to repeal an unenforceable and unconstitutional anti-sodomy law. The vote was 66-27.

A House Committee passed the legislation onto the body's floor by a vote of 9-6 last week. But one of the state's most powerful lobbying groups, the conservative Christian Louisiana Family Forum, opposes striking the sodomy ban. The group sent out a letter to every legislator urging them to vote against the proposal, claiming that teenagers would be less protected from sexual predators if they went through with the repeal. They also said the bill would put the public health at risk. "Louisiana's anti-sodomy statute is consistent with the values of Louisiana residents who consider this behavior to be dangerous, unhealthy and immoral," stated the letter to lawmakers from the Louisiana Family Forum. During a floor discussion of the bill, the legislation's sponsor, Rep. Patricia Haynes Smith, pushed back on the Family Forum's assertions. The bill only seeks to repeal a statute that is already unconstitutional, she said.

Fucking a human corpse? Legal in Louisiana. A blowjob from a consenting adult? Technically a felony and punishable by five years in prison. Praise! Glory!

Labels: Christianists, Louisiana, religion, sodomy

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Via JMG: Salon Writer: Porno Pete "Humiliated" By Student Walkout At My College

 

Salon writer Kate Geiselman recounts the walkout that took place last week when Peter LaBarbera delivered a speech about the evils of homosexuality at her Ohio college.

Mr. LaBarbera approached the podium and apologized affably for keeping us waiting. He talked about the importance of dialogue and respect. And then he said there was no scientific evidence that homosexuality is not a choice. He reminded us that the hypocritical left, in silencing voices like his, is really the party guilty of intolerance. And that was our cue to leave. We stood, without a word, and walked out. I heard a woman shouting, “Shame! Shame on you!” There were gasps and a few loud grumbles of disapproval, LaBarbera’s aforementioned “Are you effing kidding me” among them. We walked out of the venue and into the Student Activities Center, where we hugged and laughed and ate Honey Maid graham crackers. Photographs of the venue after we walked out show that about 12 people remained behind, at least two of whom I recognize as allies who likely stayed to see what he would say. It was a beautiful, beautiful thing.

Hit the first link and read the full story. (Tipped by JMG reader AJ)

Labels: Christianists, crackpots, education, hate groups, Ohio, Peter LaBarbera, religion

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