A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Wednesday, March 27, 2013
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma March 26, 2013
Changing our Approach to Life
In
Buddhism, the point is not simply to be accomplished meditators but to
change our whole approach to life. Meditation is not merely a useful
technique or mental gymnastic, but part of a balanced system designed to
change the way we go about things at the most fundamental level.
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- Judy Lief, "Is Meditation Enough?"
Via JMG: Bill Gates Will Pay For A Better Condom
Bill Gates has issued a "grand challenge" for a better condom and is offering a $100,000 prize to the start-up that comes up with a "next-generation" version. From the challenge site:
We are looking for a Next Generation Condom that significantly preserves or enhances pleasure, in order to improve uptake and regular use. Additional concepts that might increase uptake include attributes that increase ease-of-use for male and female condoms, for example better packaging or designs that are easier to properly apply. In addition, attributes that address and overcome cultural barriers are also desired. Proposals must (i) have a testable hypothesis, (ii) include an associated plan for how the idea would be tested or validated, and (iii) yield interpretable and unambiguous data in Phase I, in order to be considered for Phase II funding.Several years ago a German company introduced a spray-on condom, but the product was withdrawn because men did not want to wait the full minute for the product to dry. That, and you couldn't really travel with the applicator in your wallet.
Labels: Bill Gates, condoms, safer sex, science
Monday, March 25, 2013
Via JMG: Signorile: It Was Grassroots Activists And Not Gay Inc Who Got Us To SCOTUS
"Whether it was ACT UP organizing civil disobedience at the height of the government ignorance of the AIDS epidemic in the late '80s, or Get Equal members chaining themselves to the White House fence to push the president on 'don't ask, don't tell,' it took brave people who put their reputations, their privacy, their futures, their jobs, their families and sometimes literally their own bodies on the line to push things forward. They withstood attack not just from antigay zealots,the police and the media, but from the gay establishment, telling them to just be good little boys and girls.
"Sometimes these champions weren't even gay themselves but were allies of gay rights as well: When San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom began marrying couples in San Francisco in 2004, the Democratic establishment, and the gay establishment which is very much a part of it, went ballistic. It affected Newsom's political career, but there's no doubt Newsom is a hero of marriage equality whose action was pivotal.
"If not for grass-roots activists pressuring President Obama, gay leaders seemed likely to have given him a pass on 'don't ask, don't tell' repeal in his first term and on defending DOMA in court, let alone moving forward on marriage equality. So let's not forget these brave people as we watch all the talk shows and read the media interviews which highlight the very gay leaders who were often opposed to the exact strategy they're now embracing." - Michelangelo Signorile, writing for the Huffington Post.
Via JMG: Edith Windsor: NYC Pride Grand Marshal
Via press release from New York City Pride:
NYC Pride announced that it has selected and confirmed Edith Windsor, Harry Belafonte and Earl Fowlkes as Grand Marshals for the 44th annual NYC LGBT Pride March. These individuals represent dedication, greatness and inspiration within the LGBT community. Edith Windsor will be taking her fight against DOMA all the way to the Supreme Court after paying more than $360,000 in federal estate taxes upon the death of her partner of 44 years. Harry Belafonte has been a longtime advocate for civil rights and universal equality on a global scale. Earl Fowlkes serves as the President/CEO of the Center for Black Equity, whose mission is to fight for health, social and economic equity in the Black LGBT community.Fantastic selection!
Labels: DOMA, Edith Windsor, NYC Pride, SCOTUS
Via JMG: Signorile: It Was Grassroots Activists And Not Gay Inc Who Got Us To SCOTUS
"Whether it was ACT UP organizing civil disobedience at the height of the government ignorance of the AIDS epidemic in the late '80s, or Get Equal members chaining themselves to the White House fence to push the president on 'don't ask, don't tell,' it took brave people who put their reputations, their privacy, their futures, their jobs, their families and sometimes literally their own bodies on the line to push things forward. They withstood attack not just from antigay zealots,the police and the media, but from the gay establishment, telling them to just be good little boys and girls.
"Sometimes these champions weren't even gay themselves but were allies of gay rights as well: When San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom began marrying couples in San Francisco in 2004, the Democratic establishment, a
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nd the gay establishment which is very much a part of it, went
ballistic. It affected Newsom's political career, but there's no doubt
Newsom is a hero of marriage equality whose action was pivotal."If not for grass-roots activists pressuring President Obama, gay leaders seemed likely to have given him a pass on 'don't ask, don't tell' repeal in his first term and on defending DOMA in court, let alone moving forward on marriage equality. So let's not forget these brave people as we watch all the talk shows and read the media interviews which highlight the very gay leaders who were often opposed to the exact strategy they're now embracing." - Michelangelo Signorile, writing for the Huffington Post.
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Saturday, March 23, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma March 23, 2013
Deep Engagement
It
is a misunderstanding to think that enlightenment is some sort of final
escape from life and that the doctrine of the unsatisfactory nature of
samsara obviates any need for involvement with other beings or social
responsibility. Because nirvana is selfless, there is no self that
enjoys a state of being beyond the world. Wisdom and compassion are
ultimately inseparable, wisdom being the complete knowledge of ultimate
selflessness and compassion being the selfless commitment to the
happiness of others.
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- Robert Thurman, "The Politics of Enlightenment"
Friday, March 22, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma March 22, 2013
Taking Risks
In
order to practice, we have to surrender, we have to take a risk.
Otherwise what we’re doing is standing back in order to judge, in order
to feel superior. Often the obstacle is fear: we don’t think we’ll ever
succeed. And so we’d rather stand apart and be cynical, to feel
protected in that way, not having to try.
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- Sharon Salzberg, "Sitting on the Fence"
Thursday, March 21, 2013
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Via JMG: Marriage Support Hits Record High
ABC News reports:
Support for gay marriage reached a new high in the latest ABC News/Washington Post poll, marking a dramatic change in public attitudes on the subject across the past decade. Fifty-eight percent of Americans now say it should be legal for gay and lesbian couples to wed. That number has grown sharply in ABC News/Washington Post polls, from a low of 32 percent in a 2004 survey of registered voters, advancing to a narrow majority for the first time only two years ago, and now up again to a significant majority for the first time.The survey breakdown is here.
Labels: ABC, marriage equality, polls, WaPo
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Tricycle Daily Dharma March 20, 2013
Skillful Desire
The
notion of a skillful desire may sound strange, but a mature mind
intuitively pursues the desires it sees as skillful and drops those it
perceives as not. Basic in everyone is the desire for happiness. Every
other desire is a strategy for attaining that happiness.
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- Thanissaro Bhikkhu, "Pushing the Limits"
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma March 19, 2013
The Haven of Meditation
Meditation
is a haven away from the ubiquitous world of self-improvement. It's not
just that there's no such thing as 'bad' meditation, but there's no
such thing as 'good' meditation either. It is what it is.
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- Barry Evans, "The Myth of the Experienced Meditator"
Monday, March 18, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma March 18, 2013
Breaking the Chain of Suffering
Our
suffering was not caused by our parents or grandparents. It was merely
passed down. We are social animals. We grow through modeling. We teach
what we have learned. We act as we have been acted upon. A person who is
not loving has not experienced love. It is not his fault. Realizing
this gives rise to forgiveness. And in Chan we vow that suffering will
stop with us. We will not pass it down.
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- Guo Jun, "A Special Transmission"
Sunday, March 17, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma March 17, 2013
Our Capacity for Joy
Joy
is not something we have to manufacture. It is already in us when we
come into the world. We need only release the layers of contraction and
fear that keep us from it.
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- James Baraz, “Lighten Up!”
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Saturday, March 16, 2013
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Tricycle Daily Dharma March 16, 2013
Being Grateful for our Mistakes
It’s only our mistakes that bring us to the place where we should have been all along.
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- Pico Iyer, "My Bad"
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