No one saves us but ourselves. - Buddha
A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Monday, March 10, 2014
Via Daily Dharma
Two Kinds of Suffering | March 10, 2014
The Buddha taught that there are two
kinds of suffering: that which comes from the outside world, and that
which comes from within you. With the latter, only you can do anything
about it. Where does that suffering come from? Emptiness. Examining the
thoughts and feelings that arise from emptiness is one tenet of
Buddhism. Why do we suffer? What is at the root? Where did it begin?
When we see the answers to those questions, our suffering, which has
arisen from emptiness, returns to emptiness.
—Ittetsu Nemoto, “The Counselor”
Sunday, March 9, 2014
Via Tricycle Daily Dharma
Tricycle Daily Dharma March 9, 2014
The World Will Break Your Heart
Grief
might be, in some ways, the long aftermath of love, the internal work
of knowing, holding, more fully valuing what we have lost.
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- Mark Doty, "Don't They Know?"
Saturday, March 8, 2014
Via Tricycle Daily Dharma
Tricycle Daily Dharma March 8, 2014
A Matter of Misdirection
Buddhist practice pulls both ways. From one perspective, it is a discreet activity, something we do.
From another perspective, one which tends to emerge more clearly with
time, it seems less something we do and more something we are;
less a piece of life and more all of life. The good news may be
precisely that our lives will never 'work out,' no matter how well we
arrange the pieces or play the game, whether of career, relationships,
or indeed practice. Buddhist practice is especially recalcitrant; it
just won’t 'do' what we want, at least not for long, because what we
want is the problem.
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- Henry Shukman, "A Matter of Misdirection"
Friday, March 7, 2014
Via Pema Chodron / FB:
Could
our minds and our hearts be big enough just to hang out in that space
where we’re not entirely certain about who’s right and who’s wrong?
Could we have no agenda when we walk into a room with another person,
not know what to say, not make that person wrong or right? Could we see,
hear, feel other people as they really are? It is powerful to practice
this way, because we’ll find ourselves continually rushing around to try
to feel secure again—to make ourselves or them either right or wrong.
But true communication can happen only in that open space.
- Pema Chödrön
- Pema Chödrön
Via Tricycle Daily Dharma
Tricycle Daily Dharma March 7, 2014
The Vulnerability of Truth
Truth
has no action. Truth is weak. Truth is not utilitarian, truth cannot be
organized. It is like the wind: You cannot catch it, you cannot take
hold of it in your fist and say, ‘I have caught it.’ Therefore it is
tremendously vulnerable, impotent like the blade of grass on the
roadside—you can kill it, you can destroy it. But we want it as a thing
to be used for a better structure of society. And I am afraid you cannot
use it, you cannot—it is like love, love is never potent. It is there
for you, take it or leave it.
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- Krishnamurti, “A Question of Heart”
Thursday, March 6, 2014
Via JMG: IRS Posts Help Video For Married Gays
Via press release from the White House:
The Internal Revenue Service released a new YouTube video designed to provide useful tax tips to married same-sex couples. The new video, less than two minutes long, is available in English, Spanish and American Sign Language and can be accessed via IRS.gov. It joins an array of online products, including answers to frequently-asked questions, designed to help same-sex couples file their federal income tax returns. Following last summer’s Supreme Court decision invalidating a key provision of the Defense of Marriage Act, the IRS ruled that same-sex couples, legally married in jurisdictions that recognize their marriages, are now treated as married for federal tax purposes. The ruling applies to all federal tax provisions where marriage is a factor, including filing status, claiming personal and dependency exemptions, taking the standard deduction, employee benefits, contributing to an IRA and claiming the earned income tax credit or child tax credit.
Labels: IRS, marriage equality, taxes, White House
Via JMG: Colbert: "Self-Professed" Gays Should Send Rep. Steve King Proof Of Gayness
Mediaite recaps last night's Stephen Colbert show:
Reposted from Joe Jervis
This past weekend, King told local TV station WHO-TV that these “self-professed” gays could just as easily be straight people “setting up a case” against a business that tries to discriminate them. Colbert recounted that familiar scenario in which someone pretends to come out to their family, then pretends to fall in love, then pretends to get engaged, just so they can sue their potential florist at the last minute. “As Steve King knows, even if gays do exist, it’s nearly impossible to prove it,” Colbert said. That’s why he’s asking gays from around the country to “send photos and/or videos to Steve King, proving that you are gay.” He went ahead and provided to address on screen to make it that much easier for everyone. “Be sure to label your envelope campaign contributions, so you know that he’ll read it,” Colbert added.Watch the video at the link.
Labels: Colbert Report, Comedy Central, crackpots, crazy people, GOP, religion, Steve King, Tea Party, teabaggers
Via Tricycle Daily Dharma
Tricycle Daily Dharma March 6, 2014
Selective Wisdom
To
decide that a certain teaching is worthwhile simply because it echoes
our established opinion is very unwise. Along that easy course there is
no new discovery of truth, only more stale habit.
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- Bhikkhu Nyanasobhano, "Selective Wisdom"
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
Via JMG: Pope Francis Indicates Catholic Church Could Support Some Types Of Civil Unions
In an interview published in Italy today, Pope Francis said that the Catholic Church could consider supporting some forms of civil unions, but not same-sex marriage.
The Pope reiterated the church's longstanding teaching that "marriage is between a man and a woman." However, he said, "We have to look at different cases and evaluate them in their variety." For instance, civil unions provide financial security to cohabitating couples, "as for instance in medical care," the Pope said in a wide-ranging interview published Wednesday in Corriere della Sera, an Italian daily. A number of Catholic bishops have supported civil unions for same-sex couples, including Pope Francis when he was Archbishop of Buenos Aires in 2010, according to reports in National Catholic Reporter and The New York Times. This is the first time a Pope has "indicated even tentative acceptance of civil unions," according to Catholic News Service.In January the Vatican denied reports that Pope Francis supported civil unions. Will slippery slope blowhards like Bill Donohue now denounce the Pope?
Labels: Catholic Church, civil unions, LGBT rights, marriage equality, Pope Francis, religion, Vatican
Via JMG: New Poll: Record Support For Marriage
Via ABC News:
Half of all Americans believe that gay men and lesbians have a constitutional right to marry, according to a new Washington Post-ABC News poll in which a large majority also said businesses should not be able to deny serving gays for religious reasons. Fifty percent say the U.S. Constitution's guarantee of equal protection gives gays the right to marry, while 41 percent say it does not. Beyond the constitutional questions, a record-high 59 percent say they support same-sex marriage, while 34 percent are opposed, the widest margin tracked in Post-ABC polling. The poll was conducted in the wake of a series of rulings by federal judges that state bans on same-sex marriage and prohibitions on recognizing marriages performed elsewhere are unconstitutional.NOTE: A press release about this story mistakenly linked an earlier ABC/WaPo poll. I've replaced that graphic with today's poll result and corrected the link. The full poll results are here.
Labels: ABC, marriage equality, polls, WaPo
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