Flor do Dia - Flor del Día - Flower of the Day - 10/01/2015

“Ao tomar consciência de que há uma parte em você escolhendo sofrer, você está próximo do ponto de virada. Durante uma fase do processo de cura, é importante identificar os seus sentimentos negativos e reconhecer que existe prazer no sofrimento. Na medida em que vai ampliando a consciência, você percebe que isso é apenas um sistema de defesa criado para te proteger das dores geradas pelos choques de exclusão e abandono que viveu. Alguns se defendem através da arrogância, outros através da vaidade, da luxúria, da avareza, da gula... Tudo isso faz parte do processo de evolução da consciência humana, mas em algum momento você precisa compreender porque você precisou desenvolver determinada camada de proteção, pois também faz parte da cura entrar em contato com a dor primordial que está escondida por trás dela.”

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“Al tomar conciencia de que hay una parte en ti eligiendo sufrir, estás cerca del punto de giro. Durante una fase del proceso de cura, es importante identificar tus sentimientos negativos y reconocer que existe placer en el sufrimiento. En la medida en que vas ampliando la conciencia, percibes que eso es solo un sistema de defensa creado para protegerte de los dolores generados por los shocks de exclusión y abandono que viviste. Algunos se defienden a través de la arrogancia, otros a través de la vanidad, de la lujuria, de la avaricia, de la gula…Todo esto es parte del proceso de evolución de la conciencia humana, pero en algún momento necesitas comprender por qué necesitaste desarrollar determinada capa de protección, pues también es parte de la cura entrar en contacto con el dolor primordial que está escondido por detrás de ella.”

“When we become aware that there is a part of us that chooses to suffer, we are close to a turning point. During one phase of the healing process, it is important for us to identify our negative feelings and to recognize the pleasure we feel in suffering. As our consciousness expands, we come to realize that this is merely a defense mechanism created to protect us from the pain generated by the shocks of exclusion and abandonment we experienced. Some people use arrogance to defend themselves, others use vanity, lust, greed, gluttony, and so forth. This is all part of the evolutionary process of human consciousness. At some point, we must understand why we needed to develop a certain layer of protection, because getting in touch with the primordial pain hidden behind it is also part of the healing work.”

- Sri Prem Baba

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Compassion Demands Engagement | January 10, 2015 When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into its dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment, or awakening to our true nature, to our fundamental goodness. - Pema Chödrön, "The Fundamental Ambiguity of Being Human"

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I have arrived
I am home
In the Here
In the now
I am Solid
I am free
In the ultimate I dwell..

--Thich Nhat Hanh--

 

 

 

 

Via JMG: IRELAND: Catholic Priest Comes Out During Mass, Urges Support For Marriage

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A Dublin priest received a standing ovation from his congregation this week as he called for same sex marriage equality in Ireland and came out to his parishioners. Father Martin Dolan, who has been a priest at Church of St Nicholas of Myra in Francis Street in Dublin’s city center for 15 years, opened up to his congregation at the Saturday night Mass. He also confided in his Sunday morning congregation. Dolan is the only priest in the parish. Calling on his Dublin city congregation to support same sex marriage in the upcoming Irish referendum, set for the end May, Dolan said “I’m gay myself.” A referendum on same sex marriage will take place at the end of May 2015. Although polls consistently show that over 70 percent of the Irish are in support of gay marriage, campaigners admit that there’s no room for complacency during the run up to the vote. The Dublin Archdiocese declined to comment until they had spoken directly to Dolan. However, the Catholic Church hierarchy in Ireland showed their disdain for the referendum in December 2014. Bishop Kevin Doran of Elphin said legalizing same-sex marriage would change the meaning of marriage itself.

The Irish government is supporting a "yes" vote in the referendum.

Labels: Catholic Church, coming out, Dublin, Ireland

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THE GOLDEN RULE


The Golden Rule is an ethical statement which is found in many religions and philosophies. It is also called the ethic of reciprocity.


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African Traditional Religions
"One going to take a pointed stick to pinch a baby bird should first try it on himself to feel how it hurts."
Yoruba Proverb (Nigeria) 


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Buddhism
"Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful."
Udana-Varga 5,1
"Comparing oneself to others in such terms as "Just as I am so are they, just as they are so am I," he should neither kill nor cause others to kill."
Sutta Nipata 705
"One should seek for others the happiness one desires for himself"
Buddha (Siddhartha Gautama, c. 563 - c. 483 B.C.)

"The Ariyan disciple thus reflects, Here am I, fond of my life, not wanting to die, fond of pleasure and averse from pain. Suppose someone should rob me of my life... it would not be a thing pleasing and delightful to me. If I, in my turn, should rob of his life one fond of his life, not wanting to die, one fond of pleasure and averse from pain, it would not be a thing pleasing or delightful to him. For a state that is not pleasant or delightful to me must also be to him also; and a state that is not pleasing or delightful to me, how could I inflict that upon another? As a result of such reflection he himself abstains from taking the life of creatures and he encourages others so to abstain, and speaks in praise of so abstaining."
Samyutta Nikaya v.353

"Never do to other persons what would pain thyself."
Panchatantra (Buddhist Mythology c. 200 B.C.) 


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Christianity
"All things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye so to them; for this is the law and the prophets."
Matthew 7:1

"You shall love your neighbor as yourself."
Leviticus 19.18

"Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?" Jesus said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it, You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the law and the prophets"
Matthew 22.36-40 


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Confucianism
"Do not do to others what you would not like yourself. Then there will be no resentment against you, either in the family or in the state."
Analects 12:2

"Try your best to treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself, and you will find that this is the shortest way to benevolence."
Mencius VII.A.4

"Tsekung asked, "Is there one word that can serve as a principle of conduct for life?" Confucius replied, "It is the word shu--reciprocity: Do not do to others what you do not want them to do to you.""
Analects 15.23

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Hinduism
"This is the sum of duty; do naught onto others what you would not have them do unto you."
Mahabharata 5,1517
"One should not behave towards others in a way which is disagreeable to oneself. This is the essence of morality. All other activities are due to selfish desire."
Mahabharata, Anusasana Parva 113.8 

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Islam
"No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself."
40 Hadith of an-Nawawi 13 


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Jainism
"In happiness and suffering, in joy and grief, we should regard all creatures as we regard our own self."
"A man should wander about treating all creatures as he himself would be treated."
Sutrakritanga 1.11.33

"One should treat all beings as he himself would be treated."
Agamas Sutrakritanga 1.10.13 


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Judaism
"What is hateful to you, do not do to your fellowman. This is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary."
Talmud, Shabbat 3id 

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Sikhism
"As thou deemest thyself, so deem others."

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Taoism
"Regard your neighbor's gain as your gain, and your neighbor's loss as your own loss."
Tai Shang Kan Yin P'ien 

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Zoroastrianism
"That nature alone is good which refrains from doing another whatsoever is not good for itself."
Dadisten-I-dinik, 94,5
"Whatever is disagreeable to yourself do not do unto others."
Shayast-na-Shayast 13:29

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Other
"Do not do unto others what angers you if done to you by others."
Socrates 436-338 BCE
"We should behave toward friends as we would wish friends to behave toward us."
Aristotle (384-322 B.C.)
"He sought for others the good he desired for himself. Let him pass."
Egyptian Book of the Dead (1580-1350 B.C.)
"Do not kill or injure your neighbor, for it is not him that you injure, you injure yourself. But do good to him, therefore add to his days of happiness as you add to your own. Do not wrong or hate your neighbor, for it is not him that you wrong, you wrong yourself. But love him, for Moneto loves him also as he loves you."
Shawnees Indians 

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Contemplation and Application of the Golden Rule
Maybe, due to our past tendencies, we find ourselves acting cruelly and selfishly despite our intellectual understanding of the goodness and correctness of the Golden Rule. How may we strengthen our intellectual understanding of the Golden Rule and also increase our awareness and moment to moment application of the Golden Rule? Keep the rule in mind, that is, remember it often. Venerate the rule, silently praise it in your heart and mind joyfully. This will increase your attraction to the principle of the Golden Rule. Within your own nature, your attention will cleanse and deepen your understanding of the Golden Rule. Visualise the highest Love and Understanding of the rule as glorious light filling you and vibrating through you, cleansing, healing and blessing your motives, your thoughts, your speech, your actions and your circumstances. If you believe in God and/or positive higher powers then pray for help in this. If you are an athiest then make a rational decision to embody this rule in the best way possible.
"On this path effort never goes to waste, and there is no failure. Even a little effort toward spiritual awareness will protect you from the greatest fear."
Bhagavad Gita

Flor do Dia - Flor del Día - Flower of the Day - 09/01/2015

“Existem dois tipos de karma: um que te aproxima de Deus e te libera; e outro que te afasta e te aprisiona. O karma é construído através de pensamentos, palavras e ações. Então, você escolhe cultivar pensamentos, palavras e ações que contribuem para sua liberação ou que te aprisionam ainda mais.”

“Existen dos tipos de karma: uno que te aproxima a Dios y te libera, y otro que te aleja y te aprisiona. El karma es construido a través de pensamientos, palabras y acciones. Entonces elijes cultivar pensamientos, palabras y acciones que contribuyen a tu liberación o que te aprisionan cada vez más.”

“There are two types of karma: one that brings you closer to God and liberates you, and another that distances you from God and imprisons you. Karma is constructed through thoughts, words and actions. Therefore, you can choose to cultivate thoughts, words and actions that contribute to your liberation or ones that imprison you even further.”

- Sri Prem Baba

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Compassion Demands Engagement | January 9, 2015 The central guiding principle of Buddhism is compassion and concern for the world in which we live. It's the idea of interdependence—that our actions dictate the experience of others. I don't think everybody needs to run out and join an aid organization and everyone should feel bad that they're not doing more for people in need. But I would like to see Buddhists have a braver relationship to engaging with the world—and also, potentially, a smarter one. We're trained to develop our intellect and develop our wisdom, and it's not worth very much unless you put it into practice. - Ashoka Mukpo, "I Survived Ebola. But the Fight Doesn't End There."

Flor do Dia - Flor del Día - Flower of the Day - 08/01/2015

“Normalmente as feridas criadas na infância são reeditadas na adolescência, que é justamente um período no qual temos a chance de tratá-las. Mas, se não conseguimos fazer isso, elas permanecem na vida adulta, o que torna a cura muito mais desafiadora. Isso porque o ser humano tem a tendência de se esquecer; e o tamanho do esquecimento é proporcional ao tamanho da dor que ele sente - quanto maior a dor, maior o amortecimento. Alguns se esquecem completamente da infância e até mesmo da adolescência. E é por isso que eu tenho insistido tanto no tema da responsabilidade em relação as nossas crianças: se pudermos diminuir ao máximo o número de episódios traumáticos na infância, estaremos facilitando o processo de cura coletivo.”

“Normalmente las heridas creadas en la infancia son reeditadas en la adolescencia, que es justamente un período en el cual tenemos la chance de tratarlas. Pero si no conseguimos hacer eso, ellas permanecen en la vida adulta, lo que convierte a la cura en un desafío mayor. Esto es porque el ser humano tiene la tendencia a olvidar, y el tamaño del olvido es proporcional al tamaño del dolor que siente – cuanto mayor el dolor, mayor el anestesiamiento. Algunos se olvidan completamente de la infancia e incluso de la adolescencia. Y es por eso que vengo insistiendo tanto en el tema de la responsabilidad en relación a nuestros niños: si podemos disminuir al máximo el número de episodios traumáticos en la infancia, estaremos facilitando el proceso de cura colectivo.”

“Normally, the wounds created during one’s childhood are recreated in one’s adolescence, which is precisely the time when we have the opportunity to heal them. But if we are unable to do so, they will remain with us throughout our adult life, which makes healing them much more challenging. This is because us human beings have a tendency to forget ourselves. The extent to which we forget our true nature is proportionate to the amount of pain we feel: the greater the pain, the greater the numbing. Some people completely forget about their childhood, and even their adolescence. This is why I insist so much that we must take responsibility in our children’s lives: if we could reduce the number of traumatic events during childhood as much as possible, we would be facilitating the collective healing process.”  

- Sri Prem Baba

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A Wider Spiritual Vision | January 8, 2015 People of faith should root transformative action in the spiritual disciplines of prayer, meditation, and contemplation. While traditionally such practices served as stepping stones to the realization of a transcendent goal, today we need a wider spiritual vision that can encompass the divine and the mundane, the transcendent and the immanent, in an integral whole. - Ven. Bhikkhu Bodhi, "Foster Peace, Inside and Out"

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The news of Leelah Alcorn’s suicide has, of course, hit my family hard. And while I wrote a post, erm, a year and a half ago, about being a person of deep faith – in which I only mentioned the name of my religious persuasion in the tags, this is not something I discuss publicly.

In large part, I do not discuss this publicly because I have had an internal struggle in which I was not sure my transgender child had a place in my faith. And if she did not have a place, that meant it no longer had a place for me. And that was an intensely painful struggle for me.

I am a Bahá’í. And while you may go ahead and google it, you will find little information of value on the internet concerning transgender folk. And frankly, this post is directed at those who are already aware of the Bahá’í Faith, because it is time for me to claim my right for my family to proudly be a part of the Bahá’í family. I could find quotes from our holy scriptures for people who need that, but frankly, that’s not my job. What I will tell you is what I know the Bahá’í Faith says about being transgender and being a Bahá’í, because while my job is to raise my children to be good little human beings, I also feel a heavy weight to educate as many people about who my transgender daughter (ninja, comic book writer, explorer, inventer, artist, all around awesome human) is and her right to be where everyone is allowed to be. Thus far, we have been incredibly blessed within our own Bahá’í community, but we are a world faith, and we are a united force, not individual units across the world. 

This means that a part of me feels that I have to make this space for my daughter throughout the entire Bahá’í world. You know, only 6 million people. Heh. 

*And yes, to be clear, my voice is not an official voice, it is a personal voice.* The Bahá’í Faith encourages transgender folks to transition with the support of skilled physicians and therapists (of the individual’s choice, if they are going to transition). Furthermore, the individual is supported in their affirmed gender, and all Bahá’í laws then applying to them as such.

And it is incredibly important to me that my daughter is not shamed or judged by Bahá’ís. It is incredibly important to me that my daughter does not know fear because of Bahá’ís. It is also incredibly important to me that other children, youth and adults do not find themselves in that position because of ignorance and transphobia that is left over from an old tired world. This is not what the Bahá’í Faith is meant for. I want all Bahá’ís to read this. I want all Bahá’ís to understand that my daughter belongs in the Bahá’í Faith like every other child. If you disagree, it’s time for you to go back and fall in love with the spirit of the Bahá’í Faith all over again. Because the Bahá’í Faith is a faith for all humanity. We, as individuals, are not in a position to judge. We are meant to love. If we disagree on that, it’s not my family who doesn’t belong here. We cannot allow the Bahá’í Faith to be a place of bullying.

And if you have a child, and you have questions, please feel free to contact me. I will educate, I will support, and I will encourage. What I am not interested in and will not engage in is debate.

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Flor do Dia - Flor del Día - Flower of the Day - 07/01/2015

“O que caracteriza um ser humano é sua capacidade de se doar e de colocar o amor em movimento através dos seus dons e talentos. A partir disso evoluímos do estado humano para o estado divino. E quando transcendemos a consciência humana, nos tornamos canais da perfeição divina. Quando reconhecemos que por trás da personalidade - do nome, da história, do corpo e do ego - está nossa verdadeira essência; o princípio da vida única, encontramos a unidade dentro da multiplicidade.”

“Lo que caracteriza a un ser humano es su capacidad de donarse y de colocar el amor en movimiento a través de sus dones y talentos. A partir de esto evolucionamos del estado humano al estado divino. Y cuando trascendemos la conciencia humana, nos convertimos en canales de la perfección divina. Cuando reconocemos que por detrás de la personalidad - del nombre, de la historia, del cuerpo y del ego - está nuestra verdadera esencia; el principio de la vida única, encontramos la unidad dentro de la multiplicidad.”

“What makes a human being human is our capacity to give and to put love into motion by using our gifts and talents. This is the basis for the evolution from the human state to the divine state. When we transcend human consciousness, we become channels of divine perfection. When we recognize that behind our personality, our name, our past, our body and ego lies our true essence, the principle of the one and only life, we find unity within the multiplicity.”

- Sri Prem Baba

Flor do Dia - Flor del Día - Flower of the Day - 06/01/2015

“As fantasias sexuais funcionam como sinalizadores de aspectos da sua personalidade que ainda não foram integrados e que, às vezes, não têm nada a ver com a sexualidade. Porém, atuar na fantasia pode te colocar em situações complexas e delicadas, e te enredar ainda mais nas teias do karma. O que você pode fazer é procurar compreender o que a fantasia quer te dizer, qual é a mensagem que ela tem pra te dar. É fácil se enganar e achar que você está num lugar onde não está, e as fantasias sexuais te mostram onde você está de verdade, e te ajudam a tomar consciência do que precisa ser transformado dentro de você.”

“Las fantasías sexuales funcionan como indicadores de aspectos de tu personalidad que aún no están integrados y que, a veces, no tienen nada que ver con la sexualidad. Sin embargo, actuar en la fantasía te puede colocar en situaciones complejas y delicadas, y enredarte aún más en las redes del karma. Lo que puedes hacer es intentar comprender lo que la fantasía te quiere decir, cuál es el mensaje que ella tiene para darte. Es fácil engañarse y creer que estás en un lugar donde no estás, y las fantasías sexuales te muestran dónde estás de verdad, y te ayudan a tomar conciencia de lo que necesita ser transformado dentro de ti.”

“Sexual fantasies work like signals that point out aspects of your personality that have not yet been integrated and that sometimes have nothing to do with sexuality at all. However, acting on fantasies may put you in complex or delicate situations and entangle you further in the webs of karma. What you can do is to try to understand what the fantasy is trying to tell you and what message it has for you. It is easy to fool yourself and think you are in a place that you are not. Sexual fantasies show you where you really are and help you become more aware of what inside of you needs to be transformed.”

- Sri Prem Baba

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Smiles in Context | January 6, 2015 Positive psychology has been criticized for overemphasizing the potential of individuals to transcend their circumstances. But not every life context affords the same opportunities for flourishing. The promise 'smile, think positive thoughts, and you will be happy and healthy' underestimates the importance of social context for psychological well-being and health. - James Coyne, "Self-Help for the Affluent"

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Flor do Dia - Flor del Día - Flower of the Day - 05/01/2015

“A Indiferença é um mecanismo de defesa, uma forma passiva de raiva. Ela é como uma capa que te impermeabiliza - uma anestesia que te entorpece para você não sentir. Esse entorpecimento se não é a própria maldade, é a origem dela. Porque se você não se permite sentir, não é possível fazer empatia com o outro. E o princípio da compaixão é justamente você experimentar calçar o sapato do outro, e sentir o que ele está vivendo. Mas, essa capacidade de sentir te torna vulnerável e frágil porque você entra em contato com as suas próprias dores. Então você tenta fugir através da indiferença.”

“La indiferencia es un mecanismo de defensa, una forma pasiva de rabia. Ella es como una capa que te impermeabiliza - una anestesia que te entorpece para que no sientas. Este entorpecimiento si no es la propia maldad, es su origen. Porque si no te permites sentir, no es posible hacer empatía con el otro. Y el principio de la compasión es justamente que experimentes calzar los zapatos del otro, y sentir lo que él está viviendo. Pero esta capacidad de sentir te vuelve vulnerable y frágil porque entras en contacto con tus propios dolores. Entonces intentas huir a través de la indiferencia.”

“Indifference is a defense mechanism, a passive form of anger. It’s like a layer that makes you waterproof, or an anesthetic that numbs you so you don’t feel anything. If this numbing is not evil itself, it is the origin of it. If you don’t allow yourself to feel anything, then it’s impossible for you to empathize with others. The principle of compassion specifically requires that you put yourself in the other’s shoes and feel what he or she is going through. But this capacity to feel makes you vulnerable and fragile because you come into contact with your own pain, so you respond trying to use indifference as an escape.”

- Sri Prem Baba