Look at your relationships, and notice at which point you figure that
you have too much to lose to let go into The One. I have sat in
relationships and watched with horror that what I wanted I couldn’t
have. Because what I wanted was getting in the way of it. My desires
with regard to the relationship were getting in the way of sharing
awareness with another human being, which was going to be the ultimate
intimacy. My yearning for intimacy was making me grab for intimacy
relationally. And it was destroying the exact thing I wanted.
- Ram Dass -
Excerpt from Ram Dass Here & Now – Ep. 134 – Relationships and Living Impeccably