A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Only
through acknowledging and releasing blind emotions can I experience the
inner unencumbered and harmonious being that is always present despite
the suffering.
RIGHT LIVING Undertaking the Commitment to Abstain from Taking What is Not Given
Taking what is not given is
unhealthy. Refraining from taking what is not given is healthy. (MN 9)
Abandoning the taking of what is not given, one abstains from taking
what is not given; one does not take by way of theft the wealth and
property of others. (MN 41) One practices thus: “Others may take what is
not given, but I will abstain from taking what is not given.” (MN 8)
On smelling an odor with the nose, one does not grasp at its signs and
features. Since if one left the nose faculty unguarded, unwholesome
states of covetousness and grief might intrude, one practices the way of
its restraint, one guards the nose faculty, and undertakes the
restraint of the nose faculty. (MN 51)
Reflection
As we move
systematically through the six sense spheres, we come to that most
overlooked of sensory capabilities, discerning odors. The senses are
simply giving us information, and whether we grasp after this
information or simply let it be and take what is given is a choice we
make in reacting to the information. Moving beyond the raw smell into
attraction or aversion is a way of taking what is not given.
Daily Practice
Can you smell
something with a lovely scent and simply notice that pleasure arises
with the experience of smelling? And can you smell something foul or
disgusting and simply be aware that displeasure or even pain arises in
the smelling of it? And further, can you hold both experiences equally,
with equanimity, rather than automatically being drawn to one and
repulsed by the other? Practice simply being with what is.
Tomorrow: Abandoning Arisen Unhealthy States One week from today: Abstaining from Misbehaving Among Sensual Pleasures
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The Iranian Government publicly executed two teenage boys on July 19th 2005, in the city of Mashad. Their names were MAHMOUDASGARI and AYAZ MARHONI, one eighteen and the other seventeen or possibly sixteen-years-old.
They were accused
of raping a thirteen-year-old boy, but it has been established that the
authorities invented the charge of rape to prevent public sympathy for
the true reason for their execution, that they were Gay. After their
arrest the two boys endured a year of imprisonment and torture before
the high court of Iran upheld their sentence and their execution by
hanging was carried out in a public square in the city of Mashad.
International
outrage was met with arrogance and impunity by the religious and
conservative Iranian government, and a systematic persecution soon began
against Gays, which has led to an unverified report of a second
execution, and untold numbers of arrests and torture. These events
indicate that the worldwide struggle for Gay Freedom has not decreased
but has become more violent and inhumane.
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However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds, bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too verbal
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
When you have done an action with speech, reflect upon that same verbal
action thus: “Has this action I have done with speech led to both my own
affliction and the affliction of another?” If, upon reflection, you
know that it has, then tell someone you trust about it and undertake a
commitment not to do it again. If you know it has not, then be content
and feel happy about it. (MN 61)
Reflection
We can use our
powers of memory and observation to learn and grow along the path toward
greater clarity and self-understanding. We want to do good deeds so
that good things will come from that, and one way to do this is to
reflect on the impact of our speech on others. If we notice ourselves
saying things that cause affliction in ourselves or others, it is
beneficial to admit this and learn from it what not to say in the
future.
Daily Practice
As with your
physical actions, pay attention to the effects of your verbal actions on
other people. Just after you have spoken, notice if what you have said
might have hurt someone’s feelings or if it has been insensitive or
disrespectful in some unintended way. These days more than ever, we
cannot always trust our deeply conditioned habit patterns of speech and
need to actively reflect on the effects of our verbal actions.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Taking What is Not Given One week from today: Reflecting upon Mental Action
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