A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Friday, August 1, 2014
Via Daily Dharma
Thursday, July 31, 2014
Via JMG: CHINA: Man Sues Search Engine For Directing Him To "Ex-Gay" Torture Clinic
Via the Associated Press:
Reposted from Joe Jervis
A gay Chinese man said Thursday he was suing a psychological clinic for carrying out electric shocks intended to turn him straight, as well as the search engine giant Baidu for advertising the center. The Beijing LGBT Center, which campaigns for gay rights, said it was the first court case involving so-called conversion therapy in China. China declassified homosexuality as a mental disorder in 2001. The center's executive director, Xin Ying, said some professional hospitals in China, as well as smaller private clinics, still provide conversion therapy and that the group hopes the case at the Haidian District People's Court in Beijing will lead to a ban on the therapy. Yang Teng, 30, told The Associated Press that the therapy given to him included hypnosis and electric shock and he was left physically and mentally hurt. He said he voluntarily underwent the therapy in February following pressure from his parents to get married and have a child.Local activists demonstrated outside the court today carrying a banner that read: "Homosexuality is not a disease, we don't need to be cured." A judgment in the case is expected by the end of the year.
Flower of the Day: 07/31/14
"When
you develop the virtue of trust to the point where you are able to
surrender yourself to the flow of life, you become a hollow bamboo flute
which God’s melody is played through."
Sri Prem Baba
Wednesday, July 30, 2014
Via JMG: UTAH: Language School Fires Teacher For Blog Post Explaining Homophones Because There And Their Is Totally Gay
From the you-can't-make-it-up-department in Provo, Utah:
Homophones, as any English grammarian can tell you, are words that sound the same but have different meanings and often different spellings — such as be and bee, through and threw, which and witch, their and there. This concept is taught early on to foreign students learning English because it can be confusing to someone whose native language does not have that feature. But when the social-media specialist for a private Provo-based English language learning center wrote a blog explaining homophones, he was let go for creating the perception that the school promoted a gay agenda. Tim Torkildson says after he wrote the blog on the website of his employer, Nomen Global Language Center, his boss and Nomen owner Clarke Woodger, called him into his office and told him he was fired. As Torkildson tells it, Woodger said he could not trust him and that the blog about homophones was the last straw. "Now our school is going to be associated with homosexuality," Woodger complained, according to Torkildson, who posted the exchange on his Facebook page.The school has denied the teacher's claim of homophonia - but has also deleted his post from its website. Their clunky mission statement could use some work: "Nomen Global Language Centers substantially helps students from all cultures and walks of life to excel in each aspect of their English acquisition and to obtain their goals for the future. We achieve this goal by means of qualified and experienced faculty, dedicated staff, engaging and challenging curriculum, and professional and ethical student services." (Tipped by JMG reader Joseph)
Flower of the Day: 07/30/14
"When
you fall in love with someone, you project all of your dreams onto them
and you start to daydream. The other person does the same thing, and
you both go on trying to keep this dream alive while avoiding the truth.
You avoid revealing yourself to the other, just as you avoid seeing the
other’s revelation because it could be a threat to your dream. Thus,
the truth becomes a threat, because you prefer to keep on living in your
dreamworld."
Sri Prem Baba
Via Daily Dharma
Romantic Love | July 30, 2014
In Buddhist practice, we discover that
mindful attention can reveal a deeper truth in whatever object we are
paying attention to. The same is true in romantic love. When we use our
attention to touch and open the deeper truth in a person, we not only
catalyze the experience of love, we become love. The source of love is
revealed to be within us; we no longer have to go looking for it
somewhere outside.
- Nicole Daedone, "Love Becomes Her"
Via Daily Dharma
Blowin' in the Wind | July 29, 2014
How do we renounce? How do we work with
this tendency to block and to freeze and to refuse to take another step
toward the unknown? If our edge is like a huge stone wall with a door
in it, how do we learn to open the door and step through it again and
again, so that life becomes a process of growing up, becoming more and
more fearless and flexible, more and more able to play like a raven in
the wind?
Pema Chödrön, "Like a Raven in the Wind"
Monday, July 28, 2014
Flower of the Day: 07/28/14
"We
waste a great part of our journey looking for someone to blame for our
unhappiness, and believing that we are not good or worthy enough to be
happy. This addiction to accusing others is so deeply rooted and can be
so subtle that, when you least expect it, you find yourself accusing the
other and believing that you are a helpless victim. But when you can
transform this victim within you and free yourself from the lenses that
distort your perception, you experience a major change in perspective:
you stop seeing the glass half empty and start seeing it as half full."
Sri Prem Baba
Via Daily Dharma
Heart of Mine | July 28, 2014
Men ask the way to Cold Mountain
Cold Mountain: there’s no through trail.
In summer, ice doesn’t melt
The rising sun blurs in swirling fog.
How did I make it?
My heart’s not the same as yours.
If your heart was like mine
You’d get it and be right here.
Cold Mountain: there’s no through trail.
In summer, ice doesn’t melt
The rising sun blurs in swirling fog.
How did I make it?
My heart’s not the same as yours.
If your heart was like mine
You’d get it and be right here.
—Han-Shan and Gary Snyder, "Parting Words Summer 2014"
Sunday, July 27, 2014
Via Daily Dharma
Flower of the Day: 07/27/14
~ Worldwide current of Prabhu Ap Jago for peace in the Middle East ~
PRABHU AP JAGO, PARAMATMA JAGO, MERE SARVE JAGO, SARVATRA JAGO
“This mantra in itself only has an effect on the body, mind and spirit. But if one is aware of the meaning of the words and sings them with awareness, then this song is transformed into a prayer. It becomes a prayer from God to God. The meaning of this mantra is: ‘God awaken, God awaken in me, God awaken everywhere.’ But we can understand its meaning in other ways as well. Since we know that God is love, we are also saying: ‘May love awaken, may love awaken everywhere’, or still, ‘Open my heart, and with my heart open, I ask you to open the hearts of my brothers and sisters.”
PRABHU AP JAGO, PARAMATMA JAGO, MERE SARVE JAGO, SARVATRA JAGO
“This mantra in itself only has an effect on the body, mind and spirit. But if one is aware of the meaning of the words and sings them with awareness, then this song is transformed into a prayer. It becomes a prayer from God to God. The meaning of this mantra is: ‘God awaken, God awaken in me, God awaken everywhere.’ But we can understand its meaning in other ways as well. Since we know that God is love, we are also saying: ‘May love awaken, may love awaken everywhere’, or still, ‘Open my heart, and with my heart open, I ask you to open the hearts of my brothers and sisters.”
Sri Prem Baba
Friday, July 25, 2014
Flower of the Day: 07/25/14
"Trust
and freedom are intimately related to vulnerability. Human beings fear
being vulnerable, which is why trust and freedom are rare phenomena. A
leaf doesn’t know where the wind is blowing, but that doesn't stop it
from going with the wind. If you are a leaf full of expectations, always
trying to control the wind's direction, your life will become full of
challenges. This controlling self is fear itself trying to make things
go the way it imagines they should be. But this approach always ends up
creating separation, destruction and suffering."
Sri Prem Baba
Via Daily Dharma
A Place for Desire | July 25, 2014
The ultimate aim of my own Buddhist
practice is an indestructibly confident and happy state of life through
which I can help suffering people. Finding a balanced place for desire
in that pursuit helps keep me motivated to do the hard, personal work
demanded of a Buddhist practitioner.
—Jamie Liptan, "Chanting for Stuff"
Thursday, July 24, 2014
Flower of the Day: 07/24/14
"The mind tries to understand the truth, as it wants a rational answer to everything, so it actively seeks out these answers. But these answers only arrive when the mind quiets down. This is when you understand the truth, and when knowledge becomes wisdom. Knowledge only transforms into wisdom through experience, not through the mind."
Sri Prem Baba
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Via Daily Dharma
Real Devotion | July 24, 2014
Real devotion only arises when you have
a glimpse of emptiness, some glimpse of the nature of mind. Once you
have some very precise insight as to how emptiness helps to alleviate
suffering, then devotion is based on a real, embodied experience.
—Kyabgön Phakchok Rinpoche, "Keys to Happiness"
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