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When you add an analysis to something, you remove the mystery of it. And it is in the mystery that we can best figure things out, rather than having things figured out at the onset. Norma Wong, “Reevaluating the Job of Our Generation” CLICK HERE TO READ THE ARTICLE

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Via GBF \\\ "The Power of Words: Practicing Right Speech in Daily Life" with Laura Burges

A new dharma talk is now available on the GBF website and podcast:

The Power of Words: Practicing Right Speech in Daily Life – Laura Burges

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Ryuko Laura Burges invites us to consider how our words shape our reality and whether they serve as a force for division or healing in a troubled world.

Laura demonstrates the profound weight our speech carries, by drawing on a tender story about giving her hundred-year-old mother permission to let go, as well as an ancient tale of the Sufi weaver-poet Kabir whose gentle prayers calmed a sick child while his sharp words exposed a priest’s rage.

She frames Right Speech—one of the foundational spokes of the Noble Eightfold Path—not as a set of rigid restrictions, but as an encouraging mental guide to ease suffering for ourselves and others. Laura shows us how mindful communication is woven through all ten traditional Buddhist precepts, warning against the subtle ways we can “kill” someone’s enthusiasm with harshness, “steal” time through repetitive complaining, or use slander to elevate ourselves above others.

To help us navigate our everyday conversations with greater integrity and compassion, Laura offers a clear roadmap for reflection before we speak. She encourages us to pause and examine our inner motivations, highlighting several key practices for bringing our speech into harmony:

• The Four Filters of Speech: Pausing to ask ourselves whether what we are about to say is timely, true, helpful, and kind—noting with a smile that by the time we ask all four questions, it might be too late to say anything, which is often for the best!
• The Loving Inner Witness: Extending Right Speech inward by replacing our harsh, judgmental inner narrative with the voice of a supportive friend who guides us with tenderness.
• Guarding Our Thoughts: Remembering the ancient teaching from the Dhammapada that thought manifests as the word, the word as the deed, the deed into habit, and habit into character.

By cultivating a mindful pause through meditation, Laura reminds us that we can catch our habitual reactions and choose words that foster connection, ease ragged hearts, and bring genuine peace.

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This Day in Gay History
September 11 Died 9-11 hero Mark Bingham 2001 - MARK BINGHAM, passenger on United Airlines Flight 93, died (b. 1970) Bingham is believed to have been among the passengers who attempted to storm the cockpit to try to prevent the hijackers from using the plane to kill hundreds or thousands of additional victims on September 11, 2001. He made a brief cell phone call to his mother, Alice Hoagland, shortly before the plane went down. Hoagland, a former flight attendant with United Airlines, later left a voice mail message on his cell phone, instructing Bingham to reclaim the aircraft after it became apparent that Flight 93 was to be used in a suicide mission. Bingham was survived by his former boyfriend of six years, Paul Holm, who says this was not the first time Bingham risked his life to protect the lives of others. In fact, he had twice successfully protected Holm from attempted muggings, one of which was at gunpoint. Holm describes Bingham as a brave, competitive man, saying, "He hated to lose — at anything." He was even known to proudly display a scar he received after being gored at the running of the bulls in Pamplona. A large athlete at 6 ft 4 in and 225 pounds, he also played for the San Francisco Fog, a rugby union team. The biennial Gay Rugby tournament is named in his honor (the Bingham Cup). Father Mychal Judge being carried from the wreckage of the World Trade Towers Photo credit Reuters 2001 -  FATHER MYCHAL F. JUDGE, Chaplain, FDNY died (b 1933) a Roman Catholic priest of the Franciscan Order of Friars Minor, Chaplain of the Fire Department of New York and first officially recorded victim of the September 11, 2001 attacks. Following his death, a few of his friends and associates revealed that Father Judge was gay — as a matter of orientation, they insisted, rather than practice, as he was a celibate priest. According to fire commissioner Thomas Von Essen: "I actually knew about his sexuality when I was in the Uniformed Firefighters Association. I kept the secret, but then he told me when I became commissioner five years ago. He and I often laughed about it, because we knew how difficult it would have been for the other firefighters to accept it as easily as I had. I just thought he was a phenomenal, warm, sincere man, and the fact that he was Gay just had nothing to do with anything." Essen, with his wife, went to Mychal when they learned their son, Broadway star Max Von Essen, was gay. To put them at ease about the news Mychal took that occasion to say, "I'm gay, too." As for Mychal being "celibate," he did have a partner but was out about that to an even smaller circle. Judge was a long-term member of Dignity, a Catholic GLBT activist organization that advocates for change in the Catholic Church's teaching on homosexuality. Since October 1, 1986, when the Vatican’s Congregation for the Doctrine for the Faith issued an encyclical, On the Pastoral Care of Homosexual Persons, which declared homosexuality to be a "strong tendency ordered toward an intrinsic moral evil", many bishops, including Cardinal O’Connor of New York, banned Dignity from Catholic properties. At that time, Judge welcomed Dignity's AIDS ministry to the Church of Saint Francis of Assisi. At Judge's memorial service, Malachy McCourt said that he had heard "if Mike got any money from the right wing, he'd give it to the Gay organizations. I don't know if that's true, but that's his humor, for sure." Ironically, Judge's firefighter helmet was presented to Pope John Paul II in memory of his death. Although there has been call within the Roman Catholic Church to have Mychal Judge canonized, there is no indication that this process is being seriously considered by the Church hierarchy. Several independent Catholic and Orthodox denominations, most notably The Orthodox-Catholic Church of America, have already declared him a saint. A film, The Saint of 9/11 portrays Mychal's life as a spiritual adventure and an honest embrace of life, where alcoholism and sexuality were acknowledged. Inspired by his life, the documentary embraces Mychal's full humanity. Today's Gay Wisdom Tim Miller 2021 - It is the 23rd anniversary of the terror attack on the World Trade Centers, the Pentagon and on fellow citizens of this country. The Bush administration began planning war even before the tragic events of 9/11/01, but that it was the causus belli for which they were waiting and the day after 9/11 they went to work to weave the web of lies they used to bring us into an unjust and even more tragically, unnecessary war. As the shadows of war slowly began to spread across our country, White Crane offered an issue devoted to the spiritual idea of “Resistance.” Performance artist and author, Tim Miller spoke about the role resistance played in his art. The rise of Fascism and Racism and the plutocracy of the Republicans has made resistance new again. If not “new” then as pressing as ever. The war that was started twenty years ago still rages on, chewing up blood and treasure in its belligerent maw. We live in the Chinese curse of “interesting times.” I don’t hesitate to say it’s scary. So in observation of 9/11, now more than a decade later, and in light of current events, it  is a idea and a discussion worth revisiting. Art of Resistance Tim Miller Even more than in my performances, I think I have been able to explore and dismantle the worst of our patriarchal legacy as men through the Gay men's performance workshops I teach. For almost twenty years I have been leading performance workshops for groups of men all over the world. These workshops have been a place for men to resist the patriarchal legacy by physically exploring in full-color real time their most intimate narratives, memories, dreams and possibilities with one another. While I have often done this work with mixed groups of straight, bi-sexual and Gay men, the majority of my efforts have been within the diverse Gay men's communities in the United States, Australia and the United Kingdom. A constant focus, the base note as it were, of all this work, has been a commitment to discovering a more authentic and individualized way of being present within our deeply problematized men's psyches and bodies. I have taught such workshops in contexts as varied as at the Men & Masculinities conference that was sponsored by the National Organization of Men Against Sexism (NOMAS) in Johnstown, Pennsylvania to hundreds of performance workshops for Gay men in cities from Sydney, Australia to Glasgow, Scotland. . In the work I do with groups of Gay men, I have learned that finding a way to be more present in our embodied selves and open to the narratives that we carry in our queer flesh and blood is the quickest route to discovering the revelatory material about what it just might mean to be human. Claiming this kind of psychic space to explore our most queeny, spiritual or erotic selves as Gay men is to me a profound act of resistance. In 1994 frayed from the culture war and onslaught of AIDS, I made a show called Naked Breath in which I wanted to write a sexy and highly personal story about how two men, one HIV-positive and one negative, managed to connect. After several years in the late 80's and early 90's of shouting in front of government buildings or being dragged by cops down the asphalt on the streets of Los Angeles or Houston or San Francisco or New York with ACT-UP, I felt called to really honor the quiet human-size victories that are available to us. To model the resistance to fear of each other’s bodies across sero-status, but also to perform the resistance to the virus' negative effects to our psychic and emotional health as we did this. I wanted to try to locate what has happened to us during the AIDS era and hold up the hopeful fact that men were still able to get close to one another there amid the swirl of blood within and the cum smeared on our bodies. In Naked Breath I am surrounded by both these bodily fluids; I wanted to get wet in this performance. I also wanted that we could do this safely and full of respect for each other's bodies. My new show Us is full of nascent little queer boy resistance, but my show GLORY BOX has my favorite example. I tell a funny story in GLORY BOX about asking a boy to marry me when I was nine years old. He beats me up and tells me to "take it back". I do "take it back—that I wanted to marry him—but I cross my fingers behind me before I do! Maybe that was the beginning of my resistance and activism! That gave me the basic dissatisfaction with stuff that just isn't fair. I do think though, that Gay Americans are ready to submit to a basic disrespect to their humanity that Gay people in other western countries would find unacceptable. We have accommodated to sodomy laws, Gays not allowed in the military etc. We have that damn radical religious right in the U.S. that other countries just don't have. It infects everything. If queer folks in America would actually be prepared to resist we could change so much that messes with our community. That old devil of internalized homophobia gets in our way. I keep trying to stay close to that little nine-year old who knew that it just wasn't fair that he couldn't marry another boy! This is very much connected to the story I tell in Us about relating to Oliver Twist in the film musical as a little queer activist. He, too, wanted some "more!” That crucial act: wanting to marry another boy, of claiming space and agency as a little nine-year-old Gay boy, that resistance to the heterosexual narrative, is the place from where all my other activism around lesbian and Gay civil marriage and immigration rights leaps. Tim Miller is the author of SHIRTS AND SKINS and BODY BLOWS. In 1990 he was awarded an NEA Solo Performance Fellowship which was overturned under political pressure from the Bush I White House. As part of the NEA 4 Miller successfully sued the federal government for violation of First Amendment rights and won. Though this decision was later partially overturned by the Supreme Court, Miller continues his fight for freedom of expression and Gay rights.    |8|O|8|O|8|O|8|O|8|O|8|O|8|O|8| Gay Wisdom for Daily Living from White Crane Institute "With the increasing commodification of gay news, views, and culture by powerful corporate interests, having a strong independent voice in our community is all the more important. White Crane is one of the last brave standouts in this bland new world... a triumph over the looming mediocrity of the mainstream Gay world." - Mark Thompson Exploring Gay Wisdom & Culture since 1989! www.whitecraneinstitute.org |8|O|8|O|8|O|8|O|8|O|8|O|8|O|8|

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