Tricycle Daily Dharma November 15, 2013
Transforming Conflict
Learning
how to negotiate conflict demands that we become more present, more
fearless. We may need to relinquish the hopeful image of ourselves as
remaining serene under all circumstances, like sitting buddhas carved
from wood or stone. We have to expect our composure to be compromised as
we learn about the possibilities and creative solutions of working
directly with the conflict in our relationships. Even, and maybe
especially, when things don’t turn out as we want, our engagement with
discord refines and teaches us something, altering our life’s very
course.
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- Diane Musho Hamilton, “Transforming Conflict”
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