“The
deepening of a loving relationship cannot be forced. At times a person
needs variety, which may even be the remedy for healing their
repression. They may need variety because they aren’t ready to look at
certain pages of the book of their life yet. There is nothing wrong with
this. These are just moments along the journey. We must not fall into
the trap of the idealized self which expects us to give what we don’t
have to give. The idealized self is a cruel tyrant who demands that we
be something we are not. It asks us to surrender ourselves to a
relationship, even if we are not ready for that.”
Sri Prem Baba
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