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Wednesday, June 14, 2023
Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Speech: Refraining from False Speech
False speech is unhealthy.
Refraining from false speech is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning false speech,
one dwells refraining from false speech, a truth-speaker, one to be
relied on, trustworthy, dependable, not a deceiver of the world. One
does not in full awareness speak falsehood for one’s own ends or for
another’s ends or for some trifling worldly end. (DN 1) One practices
thus: “Others may speak falsely, but I shall abstain from false speech.”
(MN 8)
When one knows covert speech to be true and correct but unbeneficial, one should try not to utter it. (MN 139)
Reflection
The main thing
to look at when deciding if it is appropriate to speak or not is whether
what you are saying is likely to be beneficial. Yes, it is important to
speak the truth, but even when something is true it may not always be
helpful to say it. By beneficial what is meant is, will it help a person
move away from what is unhealthy and point them toward what is healthy?
If so, then by all means speak up; if not, try to keep silent.
Daily Practice
Be careful what
you whisper to others, making sure it is not a subtle form of false
speech. Even if what you are saying is true, the fact that it is spoken
in secret or covertly suggests there may be something about it unsuited
to the light of day. Better to speak only what can be said openly
whenever possible. Just ask yourself as you are about to speak: Is this helpful? Will this contribute in a beneficial way?
Tomorrow: Reflecting upon Bodily Action One week from today: Refraining from Malicious Speech
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