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Thursday, August 17, 2023
Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Action: Reflecting upon Verbal Action
However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds; bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too verbal
action is to be done with repeated reflection: (MN 61)
When you wish to do an action with speech, reflect upon that same verbal
action thus: “Is this action I wish to do with speech an unhealthy
verbal action with painful consequences and painful results?” If, upon
reflection, you know that it is, then do not do it; if you know that it
is not, then proceed. (MN 61)
Reflection
What we say has
its origin in intention, the set of our mind as we speak. It is
intention that initiates action of body, speech, and mind. Intention can
be conscious or unconscious. Sometimes we know exactly what we want to
say and say it, but much of the time words just pour out, apparently on
their own. We are encouraged here to be consciously aware of our speech
and to actively monitor its effect on others.
Daily Practice
The practice
here is not so much to monitor the content of your speech as to attend
carefully to your attitude of heart and mind as you are about to say
something. You may say something accurately, but if it comes with a
tinge of judgment or dismissal or disrespect, then it is likely to have a
harmful effect. Speak what is true, and do so with an attitude of
kindness or equanimity, guarding against aversion and hate.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Taking What is Not Given One week from today: Reflecting upon Mental Action
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