A personal blog by a graying (mostly Anglo with light African-American roots) gay left leaning liberal progressive married college-educated Buddhist Baha'i BBC/NPR-listening Professor Emeritus now following the Dharma in Minas Gerais, Brasil.
Thursday, October 12, 2023
Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Action: Reflecting upon Verbal Action
However the seed is
planted, in that way the fruit is gathered. Good things come from doing
good deeds; bad things come from doing bad deeds. (SN 11.10) What is the
purpose of a mirror? For the purpose of reflection. So too verbal
action is to be done with repeated reflection. (MN 61)
When you have done an action with speech, reflect on that same verbal
action thus: “Was this action I have done with speech an unhealthy
bodily action with painful consequences and painful results?” If, on
reflection, you know that it was, then tell someone you trust about it
and undertake a commitment not to do it again. If you know it was not,
then be content and feel happy about it. (MN 61)
Reflection
Speech is such
an important form of action, especially in our modern world of constant
communication. It helps to think of speaking words as a form of planting
seeds— something we want to do with care and with the hope of good
fruits arising in the future. It is helpful to reflect on what seeds you
have sown, and it is a blessing to be able to look back on what you
have said to someone and feel content and happy about it.
Daily Practice
Reflect on what
you have said to others from time to time, especially soon after saying
it, and check in on whether your communication has been harmful or
helpful. If you feel that something is “off” in some way, do not
hesitate to share your concerns with a trusted friend and look for ways
to repair the damage. Taking care of our healthy relationships is a form
of right action, and attending to our speech is a way of doing this.
Tomorrow: Abstaining from Taking What is Not Given One week from today: Reflecting upon Mental Action
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