Friday, May 3, 2024

Via Dhamma Wheel | Right Living: Abstaining from Misbehaving Among Sensual Pleasures

 


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RIGHT LIVING
Undertaking the Commitment to Abstain from Misbehaving Among Sensual Pleasures
Sensual misconduct is unhealthy. Refraining from sensual misconduct is healthy. (MN 9) Abandoning sensual misconduct, one abstains from misbehaving among sensual pleasures. (MN 41) One practices thus: “Others may engage in sensual misconduct, but I will abstain from sensual misconduct.” (MN 8)

Food is of two kinds: to be cultivated and not to be cultivated. Such food as causes, in one who cultivates it, unhealthy states to increase and healthy states to diminish, such food is not to be cultivated. But such food as causes, in one who cultivates it, unhealthy states to diminish and healthy states to increase, such food is to be cultivated. (MN 114)
Reflection
Here is an approach to food we are probably unfamiliar with. The issue is not what kind of nutrients the food provides but what kind of emotional states the consumption of it evokes. What is unhealthy here is greed, not sugar or cholesterol. If eating kale—to randomly pick a healthy food—were to provoke greed and lust for more, that would be encouraging sensual misconduct. Even if the food is healthy, greed is unhealthy and bad for you.

Daily Practice
Practice mindful eating by cultivating an attitude of equanimity when you eat. Some things taste good, some things taste bad. You are not forced to relish one and detest the other. Take your attention off the object of taste itself and place it instead on the experience of eating it. The problem with pleasure and displeasure is that they provoke craving, either for or against the object. Try remaining attentive but unattached. 

Tomorrow: Developing Unarisen Healthy States
One week from today: Abstaining from Intoxication

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